An example of how to write a dating profile. Fill out an application for a marriage agency

Virtual dating is becoming more popular every day. Some people find it easier to communicate and make new friends online. But what to write about yourself on a dating site so that the profile attracts attention and does not get lost among thousands of similar ones? More on this later in the article.

Oddly enough, but what to write in a profile on a dating site is interesting not only for the female sex, but also for the strong half. I want to fill in information about myself in such a way as to attract the right interlocutor. And do not waste time on those with whom conversations will be uninteresting.

The correct profile of the girl

What should be the profile of a woman / girl? It often happens that the questionnaire seems to be drawn up perfectly, but the prince does not find himself and does not write. You can't figure out where the mistake is made on your own. So what to write about yourself on a dating site to attract attention? More on this later in the article.

The correct profile of a girl should be drawn up taking into account the recommendations given below:

Usually men do not pay much attention to the name. But if this column is empty or a set of letters is written there, then no one will pay attention to such a questionnaire. Do not attract men (with serious intentions) vulgar names / nicknames. If it says "Compliant pussy", then you should wait only for lustful interlocutors. It's easier to write a natural name. Maybe not your own, but not "Lenka", but "Elena".
Decide immediately with what you need to register on the site. Just for communication, or maybe find a soul mate. And in the column where the goals of dating are written, you need to indicate the really right reason. For example, for communication. Briefly and clearly. But if you indicate: “I am looking for a wealthy man to create a relationship”, then only deceivers will respond to such information. A wealthy man is looking for a wife, not an assistant to spend money.
Here (in the dating goal column) you can leave a bait for a man. But to match reality. You should not write that you love football, if in fact it is not interesting. The interlocutor will immediately figure out the deception and disappear from the correspondence. But if you have knowledge in fishing or hiking, then you can safely write about it. What to write to a girl on a dating site? For example, the following: I love hiking; favorite pastime - fishing. Write briefly and clearly. Don't write poems.
In the information about yourself section, it is desirable to indicate the truth. Since if it says "slender blonde, 25 years old", and a brown-haired woman with excess weight and over 40 years old comes to the meeting, and even if the communication was perfect, and more than 6 months, then at the sight of such a man will not listen to anything and turn around.
Men love humor. And it's good if the girl has this feeling. Only it is better to mention this in the questionnaire, and not to lay out all the information about yourself with cool phrases and pictures. Not everyone will understand this.

Photo

All of the above does not carry as much information as a photo. More often, the male gender looks at the pictures, and then reads the questionnaire itself. What should be the photo?

High quality, bright and clear. If there is a picture on the avatar that you can’t make out anything, then such a profile will not be noticed.
It is desirable that the photo is positive. A smile draws people in. Let's assume a mysterious image. But a photo with a smile usually breaks all records.
It is best to post photos not from 10 years ago, but from this year. Not bad if the photos are taken specifically for the site.
Photos of nothing are not allowed. No need to put a photo of yourself surrounded by friends, family. How to figure out who in the photo is "Elena".
On the avatar, it is desirable to install a photo not in full growth. The interlocutor wants to see the person with whom he is corresponding. Facial features are important. But in the photo album, a full-length photo is required. Of course, try to hide the flaws on it (crooked legs, protruding ears, and so on), but again, in moderation. Since if a meeting is planned in the future, then the Internet interlocutor will be surprised by such a difference from the photo.
Photos in negligee are not allowed. Light eroticism is possible, but no more. It often happens that a girl writes about herself that she is romantic and faithful. And on the avatar itself there is a photograph, almost in nothing the mother gave birth. Who then will believe such a questionnaire. The photo must be true.

Speak the truth!

What to write to a girl on a dating site? Of course, the truth. Photos and realistic data will attract more attention from men. If there is no zest in a girl, she should be looked for. For example, a modest and nondescript girl can be an excellent conversationalist. This should be emphasized in the questionnaire. The main thing is to hook a man and start a correspondence. And then act according to the circumstances.

What is unacceptable in a woman's profile?

The following is not allowed in the application:

Often girls try to embellish themselves with their profiles, stuffing their own worth. This is not worth doing. Here the girl is like a product in a store. If the buyer likes it, he will take it at any price. But to understand whether a girl is suitable for a man or not, you can in the process of correspondence. If the girl goes too far in the questionnaire, then she can be bypassed. The matter will not come to communication. After all, there are girls nearby with simpler data and requirements.
The questionnaire should not be universal, suitable for any girl and not carry specific information. For example: “I am kind, faithful. I love evening walks” and stuff like that. Such a questionnaire will not hook anyone. There must be at least some unique information. If a girl knows how to play the guitar, then you can write it. No need to mingle with the crowd.
The application form should not contain requirements. There are girls who write directly that they want from a new interlocutor not only communication, but also material support, or they plan to marry their new friend almost the next day. Men on the site are primarily looking for someone to spend interesting time with, chat, and maybe take a walk. No one is ready to immediately limit themselves morally and financially.
Don't post all of your information at once. Men love it when a girl has a zest, a mystery. Better to open up gradually. And do not demand to spread all the information about yourself, from your interlocutor.

If registration on a dating site was in order to find a good friend, with the possibility of further relationships, then it is better not to make mistakes in the profile. The questionnaire must be individual. It is she who should help intrigue a man and attract attention.

First communication

Now consider the nuances of the first communication. It is not necessary to wait for the young man to write. You can send a message first. And here many are at a loss what to write first on a dating site, so as not to frighten off the interlocutor. Now we will give useful recommendations on this matter.

Don't be afraid to write first. If a man ignores the message, then you should not impose yourself and send the next ones.
You do not need to write all the information about yourself from birth right up to the present day. You can start with a light flirt.
Do not send your personal photos and demand a photo from the interlocutor.
No need to overuse emoticons. There are words to better describe your feelings.
Do not rush the interlocutor to a meeting in real life. You need to give time to understand exactly who the correspondence is with. Many hide their personal information, and a 50-year-old man living with his mother may well be a new friend. Although the questionnaire is completely different information.
Remember that dating sites are primarily visited for communication. Only a few reach acquaintances.

How to write a greeting on a dating site and find a good and faithful friend depends on the veracity of the data. If you write without embellishment, as everything is, to be interesting to a new friend, then he will reciprocate. And maybe this first and timid message will be the beginning of a long relationship.

What to write on a dating site? Examples

Let's look at examples of female profiles:

Simple, but tasteful. "Romantic girl, looking for an interesting interlocutor on any topic. I love humor. I am not offended by appearance. My weakness is walking through the forest and fried dumplings."
More complete survey. "I'm not petite, but it's quite okay for myself. I like to drink a cup of coffee in the morning and just love to walk in the rain. I love it when elders are respected. I like to talk about politics and argue. Usually I win in an argument. "I don't like peeling potatoes or when the lights suddenly turn off. If I'm not in the mood, I say it right away so as not to offend people close to me with a harsh word and action ... ".

Both questionnaires are unique in their own way and will not be lost on the site. For such information, there will definitely be an interlocutor.

Male profile

What should be the profile of a man/boy? It is much more difficult for a man to complete a questionnaire than for a girl. After all, it is enough for the female sex to present herself correctly. And a man is required not only his appearance, but also his financial situation. What to write about yourself on a dating site so that girls pay attention? More on this later in the article.

How to write a profile for a man?

The correct profile of a guy should be drawn up taking into account the recommendations given below:

For a woman, the name of a man plays an important role. It is necessary that the name is not hackneyed and too simple. Foreign names sound and are remembered well. For example, the name Kolya does not sound very good, but Nikolas attracts attention.
In the column about yourself, try to write the truth. But if a man is a cat person and likes to watch TV shows, then you should not write about it. A woman is looking for an assistant and support, not a girlfriend. The profile of a guy from the village will also be passed by the party. So what to write to a man on a dating site if women are so capricious? Yes, you can just enter your age. You need to write about a hobby if it is exciting. Collecting a collection of tanks is not very interesting for anyone. But scuba diving, traveling - such hobbies will only attract the attention of the weaker sex.
In the section of requirements for the interlocutor, you should not indicate which shortcomings are annoying in women. If a girl falls in love, then she can get rid of bad habits, or over time they will not be so annoying.
It is undesirable to specify the image of the chosen one. If you have a preference for brunettes, that's great. But it happens that it is the blonde who can become a soul mate, for which there was registration on the site, but she missed the questionnaire. Since the questionnaire indicates that the man loves brunettes.
When describing your appearance, it is better to indicate everything as it is. Don't lie about your height or brag about a bodybuilder's physique when your physique is average. And if possible, ideally, it is better to indicate everything to a minimum than to lie.
When describing the work, it is recommended to write in modern language. What can you write on a dating site? For example, the position of a policeman can be called a detective, a driver - a freight forwarder, and so on. Girls love newfangled and modern professions.
About the financial situation, you can embellish a little. If at present the earnings are not quite large, you can write - "financially secure", and not "enough to live on." Any girl, even if she does not have financial problems, wants to see a person next to her who can provide for her family. And if the correspondence develops into something more, then you will have to take care of earnings, so as not to be in the eyes of the interlocutor a liar.
It is better to write the truth about marital status, but without details. For example, there was a girlfriend, they broke up on a joint initiative.
You can write about an apartment or a car. But don't pay too much attention to it. Now a car is no longer a luxury. You can't buy a girl with a photo in front of a car.

That's practically all that to write about yourself on a dating site. In principle, there is no need to specify anything extra. All you need is a natural photo, truthful information, a little talk about your hobby. That's all, the questionnaire is ready.

Male example of filling out a questionnaire

"IT Specialist. Looking for a girl, an interesting conversationalist. Appearance does not play a big role, as long as it is not grouchy. I love evening walks and lead an active lifestyle. There is a small weakness - I love homemade food, but this does not affect my figure.

What should not be written in the male profile?

Should not be on the application form:

Bad photo on the avatar. You need to make time for this. It's better to post a recent photo. If you want to emphasize your figure in the photo, then you should not take a photo at home, in family shorts. Ideally, there will be a photo from the gym or on the beach.
The questionnaire should not contain tricky phrases. It should be easy to read.
There should not be strong restrictions: in hair color, in figure, in bad habits. It is better to write like this: hair color does not play a big role, although brunettes are more drawn to; parameters are not obligatory 90-60-90, but for 100 kg - this is disrespect for my figure for me, and so on.

Conclusion

In the male profile, as well as in the female one, the truth plays a big role. Lies didn't do anyone any good. Therefore, when thinking about what to write about yourself on a dating site, write only the truth. And your goals should be brief. Here are the most important rules. And they work for any profile.

There are a lot of answers to the traditional question - where you can meet a girl. And one of the most effective and convenient ways is online dating.

Dating sites on the vastness of our Internet, as you know, abound. And for starters, you should choose the resource that suits you the most for one reason or another, well, or you just liked it. Although, for greater efficiency, it would be better to post profiles on several large sites at once, such as Photo Country, Mamba, Loveplanet, Badoo, 24open. Firstly, the more profiles, the more opportunities you will have to fulfill your desire “I want to meet a girl”, since you will get a bunch of numbers and then, accordingly, dates. And in the end - more sex.

Secondly, the variety of profiles will help you eventually create one, that very coveted ideal profile, which will lead to the maximum number of amazing girls. On different sites, you can test different styles and models of filling (somewhere write more about sex, somewhere give more romance, etc.) and thus find out which image is right for you.

So, your primary task is to make such a profile so that the girl, when she sees her, forgets about everything in the world and dreams of only one thing - to meet you as soon as possible. Bypassing the tedious stage of correspondence, because one of the important rules of online dating is to minimize communication online and translate it into real life as soon as possible.
Remember that girls, for the most part, are emotional beings who are able to burst into tears while reading a sentimental book or watching a similar movie. So, your profile should become a fascinating book for them, after reading which they will certainly want to get to know the author better.

Let the questionnaire get acquainted with the girl.

Advice. In order to understand what girls have to experience on these dating sites, you can register a female profile on some major site. Take pictures of some pretty person from foreign social networks. Copy the profile of any girl you like. And read what your competitors will write. And you will laugh enough, and you will make a lot of useful conclusions for yourself on how to get to know a girl better.

Ruslan Iskhakov

A photo
The first step is to take good photos. Ideally, it is best to arrange a decent photo session with a professional photographer, where you can appear in different images. If it doesn’t work out with a photographer, carefully study your personal photo archive and choose the best pictures from it. Remember that the best photos are not those where you smile stupidly against the backdrop of a colorful carpet, or stand in swimming trunks with a bottle of beer, and even in the company of obscure personalities. The best ones are those that highlight your strengths and hide your flaws. In this case, we are talking about appearance. As an example, I always recommend looking at the photos from the social networks of our graduates of the Basic. If you are at a loss with photos, try testing them on familiar girls, friends from social networks, let them honestly say which hero you are, and which not so much. A good photo is the key to success in meeting girls on the Internet.

Name
Of course, you can use your real name. But I would still recommend taking a nickname. Capacious, short, causing good associations. Remember that your nickname should not be too long. I recently saw a girl with the nickname "It's good when the clothes fit." He, of course, is remembered, but this does not mean at all that he is good. Among the examples of successful nicknames, I can name the following - Romeo, JustForYou.

Questionnaire sections

Questionnaires usually have many sections. Not all of them are required, but there are a number of items that are desirable to complete.

Age. You can write either your real one, or one that fits the legend that you want to make about yourself.
Growth. There is no need to cheat here, you can specify your own. The same is true for weight.
Body type. It is better to write what will play for you. If you are well built, you can indicate - athletic build. If thin - also athletic. If it is fat, with fat, it is better to write - dense, or write nothing at all.
About myself. Information about who you are. It is necessary to write briefly, succinctly about yourself, either point by point, or in a general text. It is best to indicate your advantages and make it clear what a girl can get with you, why she will feel good with you. (Well, who else, because you are so much better than the rest of the majority?!!!)

In general, before filling out this paragraph, I advise you to do the following.
Look in movies or literature for images that you like. Or romantic - a gentleman, a prince. Or impudent - a bastard, an intriguer. And then think about what qualities these people have, how they can communicate with women. Based on this, you can already write a text about yourself and thereby simplify the task of meeting a girl.

Purpose of dating. This point is somewhat twofold. To be honest with yourself, then, of course, you want to have sex three times a day and with different girls. BUT - it is not worth writing about it. Therefore, limit yourself to the banal “I want to meet a girl for friendship, communication, marriage, creating a family, meetings, dates.” That way, you won't arouse suspicion and give you a reason to think that you're a pervert who hasn't had sex in a long time. The girls don't really like it, to put it mildly.
Orientation. Hetero.
Who I want to find. A very important point. Here you describe the girl you want. It is desirable to write the text large and not dry, where everything is stated point by point and uninteresting. Add more feeling to it. The girl should feel the emotions that you want to convey to her. The content can be either romantic or brazen, pretentious. The main thing is not boring.
Attitude towards smoking. Better write the truth. And then you write that you don’t smoke, and then you smoke, you get a hoax.
Attitude to alcohol. Either write that you don’t drink, or drink occasionally in companies. If you are a noble drunk and cannot go without a glass for half an hour, it is better to let the girl find out about it as late as possible. Better yet, stop whining.

Relations. It's better to write that you don't have them now.
Education. Higher, or unfinished higher.
Financial situation. I make good money, I'm well off.
Accommodation. An important question in dating girls. And here it is better to indicate that you live separately, the apartment is your own or rented. The girl will understand that if she wants you, you can have sex in a separate apartment, and not where, behind the wall, parents watch TV, grandfather snores, or neighbors swear.
sexual preferences. You can mark two or three points, you can write something from yourself that excites you especially. Just not some obscene, but something neutral.
Material support. I do not need a sponsor and do not want to be one.

So, the questionnaire is ready. Now look at her carefully and think, if you were a girl, you would like to write to such a guy. If you feel that no, you don’t want to, then the questionnaire needs to be finalized.

Recorded by Alexandra Ivanova

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Communication on dating sites is actively gaining popularity in our time. This is much easier than starting to communicate in reality. But what to write about yourself on a dating site so that the profile attracts the attention of the opposite sex?

What to write about yourself on a dating site for men and women

First you need to understand that there is a completely different approach to the female and male profiles. And here all the details are important.

Women's profile: rules and examples

Filling out the questionnaire, the girl often notices that there is no feedback from men. So what is important to mention in the questionnaire in order to be in the spotlight and make an acquaintance?

Rules for filling out a questionnaire for a girl

Men most often pay attention to a woman's name. If the line is empty or a set of letters is written there, it is unlikely that anyone will respond to such a questionnaire. You should not indicate playful phrases or nicknames, they will only attract men with frivolous intentions. It is best to write the real name in full.
Immediately it is worth deciding what is the purpose of creating a questionnaire. Some register for the purpose of simple communication, others are looking for acquaintances with the opposite sex. Therefore, in the column "purpose of dating" you need to indicate the real reason.
In the same column, you can leave a small bait for the male. For example, indicate their knowledge in the field of fishing, if they really are. It is worth writing about this briefly and concisely - for example, “I love hiking and fishing.”
In the section about yourself, you need truthful information. Real weight and age will play a special role - if a brunette over forty comes to the first meeting instead of a young blonde, the man is unlikely to be delighted. And then your communication obviously will not work out.

Important
All men love a sense of humor in girls, so it is worth mentioning this in the questionnaire. Not funny pictures, but a couple of subtle phrases with humor.

Samples of filling in the section "about yourself" for girls

Below are a few good examples for filling out a female profile on a dating site:

“Lovers of life, ready for a serious relationship with vivid impressions, write. I am mischievous in life, elegant in a restaurant and able to make gray everyday life boring and warm.

“I am always optimistic. I believe in people and dream of meeting a worthy man who needs care, love and tenderness.”

“Do you also think that without love life seems incomplete? Are you looking for a reliable companion who knows how to surround a man with comfort? Congratulations, you found me and were not mistaken.

“Friendly and romantic girl. I'm sentimental and don't like lies. I love rain and books, I dream of a man for whom family is the main thing.

“I want to remain a mystery so as not to write platitudes out of a desire to get married as soon as possible. I'd rather wait for a man for whom our acquaintance will be a success, and our family will become a small home fortress.

Male profile: rules and examples

How should the profile of a young man or a respectable man look like? It is usually more difficult for men to fill out a questionnaire on a dating site, because it is not enough for them to simply present themselves, as women do. What should a man write in the questionnaire? How to correctly compose a male profile in order to attract attention?

Rules for filling out a questionnaire for a man

The correct questionnaire should be drawn up taking into account a number of simple rules:

For a woman, a male name is important, while it should not be too simple and hackneyed. Men's names look attractive. For example, Kolya sounds too simple, but Nicholas can attract attention.
It is important to be as truthful as possible about yourself. It's helpful to write about your hobbies that are fun and interesting, like scuba diving.
The column "requirements for the interlocutor" should not contain information about what flaws annoy you in girls. If a girl falls in love, then she will begin to get rid of bad habits.
You should not indicate too specific an image of the desired chosen one. If you indicate that you only like brunettes, then you may well miss the perfect blonde girl who, for the sake of her chosen one, could change her hair color.
About appearance, it is better to indicate real parameters, otherwise the first date will be unsuccessful, because it will not live up to expectations.
When describing work, it is worth expressing yourself in a modern way. The work of a policeman can be called a detective, and the driver - a freight forwarder. Girls appreciate modern professions.
On the issue of financial status, you can embellish a little. If the earnings are not very large, you can indicate "financially secure." Any girl who does not even need money wants to see a man next to her who can provide for her family. Therefore, if you write “enough for life”, you can push away many girls.
About the marital status, you need to indicate the pure truth without details. For example, there were relationships, parted by mutual agreement.
About the car or apartment, you can specify, but without much fanaticism. Today, this is no longer considered a special luxury, so you should not try to buy a girl for it.

Samples of filling in the "about yourself" section for men

"IT Specialist. Looking for an interesting girl of any appearance. I love walking in the evenings and sports, my weakness is delicious homemade food.

“My life is full of interesting events. The only thing I miss is my beloved girl next to me. I would share this rich life with her, so I decided to start a questionnaire here. On the Internet, it is much easier to meet an interesting interlocutor.

“I don’t like sports – instead I spend time investing in the future that I dream of sharing with you. By the way, I meant watching football, and the gym is sacred. I will show you my strength to protect and protect the fragile you.

Now you know what to write about yourself on a dating site. These are simple phrases that you can indicate about yourself on a dating site. The key rule is the maximum of truthful information, a real photo and a little about hobbies.

With a few simple tips, you will learn how to please a man who is looking for a relationship on dating sites

1. Pick a good photo

In order to find a man on a dating site, he must first find you. The main, first and sometimes the only thing men look at is your photo.

Therefore, the main photo should be such as to show you from the best side.

If you have a gorgeous figure - show it, if you have a face, then let it be a portrait photograph. However, it is worth paying attention to the purpose of your Internet dating.

If you want an easy relationship without obligations, then an erotic scantily clad photo will be just right. But if you want to find a man for a relationship, then I advise you to use a less frivolous, but no less attractive one as the main photo.

The more different photos you upload, the better - but they should all show you in the best possible light. Obviously studio professional photos are better not to be used as the main ones. You may get the impression either that you are taking this site too seriously and thoroughly. And the excessive seriousness of a girl and her intentions can frighten a man. Or he may think that you are a professional who is looking for money or a sponsor through this site.

Therefore, I repeat once again, in order to attract the attention of a guy, choose:

* The most successful photo (emphasizing the figure or face)

* Photo matching your intentions

* Upload a variety of photos - portrait, swimsuit, full length and so on

* Use high-quality, but not studio photos

2. Fill in only the most necessary information

On any site you need to fill out a questionnaire about yourself. There are a huge number of questions in these questionnaires and in some places, you just need to tick the boxes, and somewhere you need to describe yourself in your own words.

So, in the questionnaire, fill in only the most necessary minimum - place of residence, age, height, weight, some characteristics of appearance. You can add education, a little about hobbies and, of course, who you are looking for.

Do you want:

* Find a husband

* Find a man for a relationship

* Find a lover

* To find a friend

All other details - attitudes towards smoking, alcohol, long and detailed descriptions of oneself are completely unnecessary. First, few people read all of this. Secondly, you can accidentally write there something that he does not like, and he will immediately reject you, without recognizing your beautiful soul. And, thirdly, a woman must always remain a mystery to a man and thus constantly maintain in him a keen interest in herself.

3. Do not delay communication on-line

You met, realized that you can be interesting to each other - it's time to end communication on the site. Firstly, it is not convenient, there is no interactivity in communication. Secondly, it can drag on and never develop into something more.

Therefore, as soon as possible, switch to communication via ICQ, skype or another messenger, or by e-mail. But it shouldn't take too long either.

4. Talk to him on the phone

Voice can tell a lot about a person. By talking to him on the phone, you can save your time and reject completely inappropriate candidates - for example, he speaks obscenities, or with a thieves' dialect, or is very boring.

But at the same time, do not make hasty decisions and reject only those who clearly and 100% do not suit you. Let everything else be decided at the first meeting.

And again, when talking on the phone, you don't have to tell him your whole life - listen to him. Let him tell you everything he wants or answer your questions. You are still a mysterious stranger to him.

5. The first date is the key to the success of future relationships

The first date is very important when creating a relationship, because the first impression is very easy to spoil and very difficult to change. Therefore, the main thing that you need to remember is that it should be a pleasant date for you and for him.

I understand that you may have already met many and already understand who you need, but still you should not turn your first meeting into an interrogation with an addiction. Make it a romantic evening, not a job interview.

Flirt, show genuine interest in him, ask questions and tell a little about yourself. In short, do everything that we teach at the Flirtini training.

6. Leave on time

There is nothing worse than a deadlocked conversation than a prolonged meeting, when you no longer know what to say to each other, when the initial interest has already subsided. It seems that you liked each other, but somehow it became a little boring, a little awkward and you no longer know how best to get out of this situation.

So, the best way out is prevention. Don't delay your first meeting. Leave when you see that you are interested in him. Finish the conversation at the peak of his interest in you and then he will want the next and next meeting. Leave him the opportunity to think about your meeting, remember it, strive to see you again.

The first date usually lasts 40 to 90 minutes, no longer. You still know each other too little, you have nothing to talk about for hours. And even if it seems to you that you have found your soul mate, anyway, it is better to continue the conversation at another time and place. And from the first date it is very important to leave on time.

7. To please a guy - create intrigue

Remember that a man is a hunter, he wants to conquer and solve the riddle of a woman who attracts him. There is nothing more boring and sadder than a woman - a read book.

You don't have to tell him your whole life. We can mention only a few interesting and intriguing facts from his biography. But no boring details, no sorrows, troubles and suffering. Become for him a woman of a fairy tale and a dream, a ray of light in a dark kingdom and ... of course, listen to him.

And now, following these simple, but proven recommendations, you can find a man on the Internet with whom you can create the relationship that you want.

What attracts men in women's on-line profiles on dating sites?

Have you ever wondered what attracts men in the profiles of women on dating sites? Why are some profiles viewed almost every 5 minutes, while someone's profiles are left without any special attention at all?

Here's what the men themselves have to say about it:

Beautiful and good quality photo (or better a few photos!)

All men, as you know, love with their eyes. For this reason, the first thing that attracts their attention in the profile of the female half is a beautiful photo of excellent quality. The photo should be not only beautiful, but also quite real. Men want to see a real girl in the photo, and not the girl who would like them to like. Looking at the photo, men think about meeting you in reality. You should also not post a photo that is already somewhat untrue, for example, you are now far from being an inch, but in the photo - just harmony itself. When meeting a man, a very unpredictable reaction may occur (he expected a inch!).

Brief and truthful information about yourself

Information about yourself in the questionnaire, as well as a photo, must correspond to reality. Men do not like it when in the questionnaire the female half pretends not to be the people they really are. Men like it when the questionnaire itself is short, but meaningful (your hobbies in your free time, position, description of your character). The questionnaire itself should be written in simple language, the way you usually communicate with your friends.

Similar hobbies

Men are especially attracted to those girls in whose profiles they find similar hobbies. The stronger sex believes that since both of you, for example, love an active lifestyle, sports, then you definitely need to meet, because you have a good chance of being together. For some reason, it seems to men that common interests are already a good start to a relationship.

The information in the questionnaire must be persuasive.

Men are attracted to confident women who claim to be beautiful, interesting, and smart. The stronger sex has curiosity and a desire to check how true this is, so they will certainly make appointments with you. But questionnaires with vague information about themselves, most likely, will not be of any interest.

Information about what is important to you in this life

The female half, as a rule, does not write about her family and loved ones, believing that this information can only scare away men. In fact, there are many men for whom their family, relatives are the most important thing in life. The weaker sex should not be shy about writing in questionnaires about what is really important for them in this life.

What should not be allowed when meeting through the Internet?

In today's world, we have so little time left for ourselves. We sometimes do not have time to just meet with friends, not to mention our personal lives. Not surprisingly, due to the lack of time, people are more likely to prefer dating through the Internet. We all deal with such encounters differently. Someone is extremely negative, believing that it is hardly possible to find your soul mate on the World Wide Web, while someone thinks completely differently.

In fact, Internet dating does not always end in failure: many on the World Wide Web find their own personal happiness. If you decide to find your soul mate on the Internet and want your new acquaintance to be an acquaintance for many years, do not allow the following:

Don't write too often.

Do not immediately attack a new acquaintance, flooding him with letters. You should not show that at the moment you are very lonely, and you have no one in your life. Such a fact will only act repulsively. If your first letter remains unanswered, then you should not write a second time. In no case should your new acquaintance feel that you are being imposed. Always know your worth. If the other party is also interested, then some time after the correspondence by e-mail, you can discuss the possibility of a first meeting. Remember that relationships are unlikely to get any development exclusively in correspondence. Ideally, after 2-3 emails, a call should follow, and then the first meeting.

Don't ignore spelling.

Do not rush to send letters to an addressee who, frankly, is not indifferent to you. Check what you have written carefully. Letters should not contain grammatical errors. The presence of errors in the letter may tell the addressee that you are in a hurry, you are nervous, or you are writing under the impression. And you want to make a completely different impression!

Don't be afraid to develop relationships.

Many are afraid to develop relationships and go beyond the usual e-mail correspondence. If you are serious about developing a relationship, do not be afraid to take a step forward, do not be afraid to seem stupid somewhere, do not be afraid to make a mistake or misbehave. Without steps forward, there is no relationship. Many people are afraid to take the first step because they think they have nothing to say about themselves on the phone or at the first meeting. In fact, we all have something to tell others about, and in the course of communication we understand what else we can talk about.

Don't be a pessimist when looking for a partner using the Internet.

Some, especially smart ones, will now say that one positive is not enough. But in fact, it is not so. A positive attitude can change a lot in our lives. It can lead us to new jobs, new environments, and new encounters. Positive emotions attract positive changes in our lives. Hence the conclusion: if we think and believe only in a positive outcome of any situation, then it will be positive for us. Therefore, if we think we can find a good person on the Internet, then we will certainly find this person.

Online dating. Three major dilemmas solved!

Almost all people who turn to the World Wide Web in order to find friends face the same problems. However, each of us who first went to dating sites thinks that he is unique and that he will not have any problems during communication on the Internet. As practice shows, even these unique individuals eventually face problems on the network.

The most common dilemmas are:

I just registered (registered) on a dating site, and they just attack me with letters ...

We all experience a slight rush in the first few weeks after registering on a dating site. We want everyone to notice us, so we put enough effort into this ourselves, sending messages to everyone who at least something attracted us. As a result, already a week later, we receive just a ton of messages that require our attention. We are confused, we feel that we are simply unable to cope with such volumes of letters. To prevent this from happening, we recommend that you first choose only 5 people that you liked the most and try to establish contact with them. If one of these five acquaintances does not wish to communicate with you, then instead of him you should try to contact someone new. The most important rule is not to write to everyone.

Further, when you communicate with five acquaintances at the same time, try not to get confused ...: do not confuse their names, hobbies, addictions, etc. Systematize the first time information about each of your new acquaintances in order to avoid ridiculous situations.

Sometimes after a few letters, it begins to seem to us that we have fallen in love. However, we cannot be objective until we meet this person, communicate with him. If it seemed to you that you were in love, go to action - call, make appointments. Love through letters is short-lived, and it does not allow us to fully realize whether this or that person is really right for us.

I think I'm already very seriously carried away by someone ... And now what ?!

As soon as you realize that you are seriously interested in your new acquaintance, you will certainly have a desire to remove your profile from the dating site. You will argue about whether or not to remove it from the site. If you decide to communicate only with your new chosen one, delete your profile from the dating site. And don't tell your new friend about it. If he is very interested, he will check whether your profile is still hanging on the dating site or not.

You should not check which of your new acquaintances removed their profile from the site. Of course, you will certainly be bursting with curiosity to go to the site and check it out, pull yourself together and stop. If you cannot calm down and still really want to know if the profiles of your new acquaintances are still hanging on the site, ask them directly about it and, finally, calm down!

Ask your new chosen one to remove your profile from the dating site.

You certainly will not be pleased to see the profile of your new friend on a dating site. You should not hide something in such a situation ... Ask your friend to delete his profile from the dating site, adding that you did this with your profile a week ago. Let your friend know that you feel good together with him now, you and him have a lot in common, so you don’t need to look for someone else. It would be useful to add that if your new acquaintance removes his profile from the site, this will mean for you that he wants to meet with you. If your new acquaintance refuses you, do not be upset and decide whether you want to continue to meet with him. If you decide to continue the relationship, you can add, “Well, that’s up to you. But still, you are unlikely to find someone better on the site, me!”. Believe me, your confidence can work, and after a while your new chosen one himself removes his profile from the dating site.

Article pages about virtual love

I want to meet an interesting person (who does not want to be bored in his spare time from work). This is all in a good way. Please do not bother me for sexually anxious needs.

unfortunately, I am not a happy owner of enlarged mammary glands and a capacious pelvis, sorry ...

I'm looking for: An interesting and frank man who does not hesitate to turn his soul inside out, someone who knows how to talk about sex and listen...

I am a little mouse that can brighten up cold winter evenings, give affection, tenderness and care to the sexiest and most brutal of men. I'm waiting for a hunter, someone who is able to catch and tame me... [Yes, even a mousetrap is enough for you!]

everything is in moderation, like everyone else, there are arms and legs and everything like that

In general, I love sex, I can not help myself!

I'm funny and all

Calm, kind, sometimes harmful, I can explode sharply.

used to do many sports, go to the pool

I am a gentle and affectionate cat. In sex, I am mostly active. I would like to see with whom I write off.

Moreover, the sufferers of VIRT do not write, do not distract people for nothing.

PEOPLE STOP ASKING ABOUT HUSBAND. TIRED OF VNATURE! [in the application it says "married"]

In sex, I love: no need to waste time on unnecessary words

With obscenities, please do not disturb from the sphere too. [What did you not like about this area?]

I know for sure that I’m not a bitch! but maybe I’m wrong [I think you’re not mistaken!]

AND I WILL ASK ALL THE TURKS THERE, DO NOT WRITE TO ME!

I am young, very intelligent, I take care of myself and I am a little freaked out by the number of indistinct (outwardly and intellectually) subjects with requests declared on this site. Guys, what are you? ... [Is it true, what are we?]

I just want to talk and still understand - are there adequate people here or staying on this site causes irreversible changes in the brain?

What will I do on my free day:
I definitely will not trample in a nightclub, bowling and other places of empty pastime. However, I will not go to the reading room of the regional library either. In the cinema, do not care, how long have you seen a good movie in the cinema? [subtly noted!]

Dear HUSBANDS, return to your wives, this is important!

A man who knows women, if you like a movie what a woman wants, then you are for me. But if you know women like Almodovar knows them, Loves them like Brass and feels like Kar-wai, then we will find something to do in dull gray days [experienced! she knows everyone, she was everywhere!..]

Profession: It's a secret, I'm anonymous here [wow 008!]

It turns me on: Confidence, action (not inaction), a man has to decide everything, and I'll think...

Don’t write without a photo, I won’t answer anyway! And don’t offer me any nasty things ...

I am what I am, sometimes evil, sometimes a bitch, but kind and sympathetic.

Turns me on: idea
How often I would like to have sex: As many times a day as the idea arises. [so, what: "oh, the idea!..."?]

I want to find: A serious purposeful young man with whom I will build a new Moscow. [Madam Luzhkova?!]

I ask you not to disturb young people under 19 and over 25 years old, just as I ask you not to disturb those for whom the purpose of dating is sex, and who cannot imagine their life without it.
PS: Perverts, please go through the forest!

How often would I like to have sex: a couple of times in my life if I decide to have a baby XD

A girl with character... knows what she wants... never thinks for a long time... hits right in the heart!
Bitch... God... what a bitch I am...

young pretty girl wants to meet a handsome guy for a serious relationship
Who I want to find:
handsome young man
[you must be able, however, to write the same word in three sentences in two sentences]

An ordinary girl with a good sense of humor. And I don't know what else to say - I don't know myself well =)

I love romance unfortunately which is lacking in our time.

young, naughty, agile...
[slightly lower in the questionnaire]
Height, cm: 158
Weight, kg: 85

I'm terribly bad! =)
(Brevity is my sister =))

About me: I LIVE IN THE KNOB!...tired with your questions, go to hell!..

An interesting person in communication with excellent qualities, able to understand, appreciate, respect and demand the same in his address! :-)
In short: a bitch of a rare soul!

About me: there is a lot to write about, but it is better to know!
do not offer sex) I'm interested in communicating with nice people!
Looking for: Friendship and communication
Who knows where our conversation will lead.

a person with a pure soul! I want to find a person who can say everything and not shut up at the same time. A man with clear eyes and a hidden smile..

Natura is half romantic.

About me: a cheerful girl with her cockroaches in her head, I like to be in the company of my friends, but in general I have a complex character.

In sex, I like to: give pleasure to a partner (a worthy partner) [and an unworthy one - to masturbate?!]

In sex, I like to indulge)

A man who treats sex as a pleasure of soul and body and can sincerely make friends without any obligations ...

There is a heterosexual experience: The experience has passed, the passion and desire to get enough of it remains!

I am amused by violent emotions, passion, and in general everything that moves.

I'm studying to be a designer and pretty!

In sex, I like: That which does not contradict my moral principles.

I want to find: Preferably a guy and not preoccupied...

a huge request .. do not offer sex .. I'm not interested .. maniacs, perverts and morally fallen people, I ask you to ignore my profile ..

Girls with lizby tendencies - please don't worry :)

About me: ...Otherwise: not the simplest, but with arms, legs and a head!

Who I want to find: Togo, who will drag me off this fucking site.

Dear girls, I'm hetero so please excuse your statements ..

I want to find: A young man with a sense of humor and a subtle understanding of women's desires and fantasies (don't get me wrong)

About me: ...If you don't, then there are corrupt women!

I can make a scene, but I quickly come to my senses, I never hold a grudge, I don’t take revenge and I don’t sink into self-pity. After an emotional explosion, my optimistic nature is reborn. I am very feminine, perhaps too feminine for the average man.

I have a bad temper. Yes Yes. Absolutely inadequate, very impulsive; I don’t pretend to be an extraordinary personality, I don’t enrich my face with intelligence. In general, I am clearly an unhealthy girl, with pronounced megalomania.

I want to find: Togo, who will tremblingly hold my hand while horrors are on the screen in the cinema. Well, of course, and the one who, when it’s really meat, is ready to sacrifice his shoulder :)

P.S. Please, please, don't contact me with adultery proposals. Thus, you only spoil my mood. Have pity! (in the section About me)

Masha Salavieva [as she wrote her last name in the questionnaire]

About me: I want to find my soul mate here! rather than satisfy your natural instincts!

Profession: journalist (!)
[below in the questionnaire]
Car: Black [competent, however, now journalists!]

I am kind, but prickly Hedgehog. I love champagne and chocolate and reject the courtship of 40-year-old men.

a young, pretty swindler will get acquainted with whom, but the main condition is the presence of a valid passport. decency and tact do not guarantee!

Girls with a non-traditional orientation, please bypass the page!

Mostly sweet, tender, devoted... I can change!)

I answer the most popular question: YES, I really knit and love to do it. BUT(!) I don't need to be asked to tie you something, what an idiocy.

Young people, do not bother, it is not necessary to offer sex!

nice monogamist looking for monogam)

Old! (after 21) Please do not write!

Married people and others in this spirit, who are looking for themselves without knowing what is not needed ..

I am the way I am! and there's nothing to fix! and generally speaking! I'm scary and terrible! be afraid of me!

do not consider me a bitch and a bitch, but the beginning is like "Oh-oh-oh:) you are sexy" do not roll.

Purpose of Acquaintance: To lure, play cat and mouse, tickle the nerves to begin with, and everything else depends on your behavior ...

If briefly about myself, then whim, nervousness, bitchiness and psychosis in one bottle.

Profession: A GOOD GIRL IS NOT A PROFESSION! i-brainfuck!

I, this is me. a delicate and fragile flower that can prick, but sexy to the point of horror

I want to find: Normally muzhik!a not kozla, who thinks that in pants! Do not offer intimacy..

About me: a mere mortal woman...

Profession: "seven-handed eight-membered"

Sex and perverted concepts do not offer it!

About me: I don't lend money

I want to find: simpotichnogo interesting impudent young man)!

In sex I love: Everything!