Ludmila Belyavskaya. Alexander Belyavsky - biography, information, personal life

And his 13-year-old daughter graduated from the seventh grade with one triple and went to Greece

Five years ago, 80-year-old Alexander BELYAVSKY jumped out of the fifth floor. Arriving after 12 minutes at the scene of the tragedy, the ambulance doctors stated injuries incompatible with life. All this happened in front of his wife Lyudmila and nine-year-old daughter Sashenka, who were walking in the yard.

The investigation never established what it was. Accident? Or did the legendary "Fox" commit suicide, tired of the exhausting struggle with a serious illness?

A few years before the tragedy, Alexander Borisovich suffered a severe stroke, after which he was never able to recover. Complete helplessness, disability and, as a result, lack of money came to a successful and sought-after actor.

And four months before an apoplexy in a 71-year-old Belyavsky and his 53-year-old wife Lyudmila, Sashenka was born. Incredible happiness? Yes. But, having lost his health, the head of the family also lost the opportunity to support "his girls." You can't get away with two pensions.

I was closely acquainted with this family, I often ran to visit their apartment in Bolshoi Tishinsky, where the actor had lived for the last 15 years. I saw how Belyavsky idolizes Sashenka, fooling around and playing with her, how affectionately he looks at Mila. They lived poorly. But the atmosphere in the house was really warm.

It was always comfortable in the artist's apartment on the third floor. How he ended up in fifth that September day is still a mystery. Photo by Larisa KUDRYAVTSEVA / website

Like the sun

When Belyavsky died, Lyudmila Tikhonovna stopped communicating. Her phone, no matter how much I tried to call her, was silent.

The other day I again came to this well-known courtyard, where I repeatedly sat with Alexander Borisovich on a bench and watched little Sasha.

Everything is still here. Unless the trees have grown and built a new playground. As before, there are many children with their parents.

I go up to the third floor, where the actor lived, I call. Silence.

If you are to Lyudmila, then she is with her daughter in the country, - I turn around to a pleasant female voice and I see an elderly couple going up the stairs. - For the whole summer, as always, they went there.

Arkady, - the man appears. - We've been living here for a long time. We know the Belyavskys well. Actually, the tragedy happened in front of my eyes. I was on the street. I look - the people crowded at our entrance. I approached - and there Borisych lies. He lived, as you know, on the third floor, and for some reason his cane was found on the fifth. So, he went up there on purpose. And the window is wide open ... What really happened then - who will figure it out now. Mila, his wife, immediately ran up. There was no face on her, she was very grief-stricken. And after the funeral, she withdrew into herself. We practically don't see it. During these five years, we crossed paths several times on the landing. He says hello dryly, lowers his eyes - that's all. Look some sad, tired, I would say. Yes, I understand - she herself is already 67 years old, and Sasha has the most problematic age coming ( the girl will turn 14 on August 28. - OK.). But she is a good girl - it is unlikely that the quirks will begin.

- Did Lyudmila not have a new man?

What is there! She loved Borisych to madness.

- Is Sashenka also closed, like her mother?

Vice versa. Always very friendly, smiling like the sun. Sasha is beautiful. Dress fashionably. Walks with an iPhone. High - 172 centimeters! All in a folder. Graduated from seventh grade. With one triple. Physically. She doesn’t go to her because of her health, so they put it so, as they say, for show. Now they will have some kind of profile distribution. Sasha chose in-depth study foreign languages. Wants to master Italian perfectly. He is engaged in a theater studio. Dreams of becoming an artist. Like Dad. This family was good. Borisych, after a stroke, only thanks to Mila and Sasha, went and spoke. big love there was!

I wonder what money they live on now? After all, Lyudmila Tikhonovna did not work even under Alexander Borisovich, and now her age is already ...

Mila doesn't seem to be working, yes. But he receives a pension. And Sasha, too - for the loss of a breadwinner. This is another 10-12 thousand per month. Relatives help. They twist out somehow. For good annual marks, Mila took Sasha to Greece. There is no summer at all in Moscow, but it is gorgeous there. They often travel to the Black Sea as well. In Bulgaria, in the city of Ahtopol, Mila's friends live. They visit them. You come in the fall to be sure to catch them. Borisych will have an anniversary.

Future biologist

In the evening, when I got home, I found the old notebook. With contacts of friends, colleagues and relatives of Belyavsky. I wanted to call. The latest family news was shared with me by the sister of Alexander Borisovich - Olga:

And we have grief - Vali is gone ( Valentina Belyavskaya - the first wife of the actor, the mother of his children Bori and Nadia. - OK.). She was like a sister to me. Until the end of her days communicated. Valya remained faithful to Sasha all her life. If he wanted to return, he would have accepted without reproach. Mila too good man but uncommunicative. Now he does not communicate with anyone at all. From good news: Kostya, the eldest son of Nadia, graduated from school this year, entered the Moscow State University at the Faculty of Biology. Now he has gone to practice near Zvenigorod. I think Sasha would be happy for his grandson. He himself first studied as a geologist at the Institute of Non-Ferrous Metals and Gold. There he met Valya. Recent times they rarely spoke with Sasha. Now, THERE, they will talk a lot ...

And his 13-year-old daughter graduated from the seventh grade with one triple and went to Greece.

Five years ago, 80-year-old Alexander BELYAVSKY jumped out of the fifth floor. Arriving after 12 minutes at the scene of the tragedy, the ambulance doctors stated injuries incompatible with life. All this happened in front of his wife Lyudmila and nine-year-old daughter Sashenka, who were walking in the yard.

The investigation never established what it was. Accident? Or did the legendary "Fox" commit suicide, tired of the exhausting struggle with a serious illness?

A few years before the tragedy, Alexander Borisovich suffered a severe stroke, after which he was never able to recover. Complete helplessness, disability and, as a result, lack of money came to a successful and sought-after actor.

And four months before the apoplexy, 71-year-old Belyavsky and his 53-year-old wife Lyudmila had Sashenka. Incredible happiness? Yes. But, having lost his health, the head of the family also lost the opportunity to support "his girls." You can't get away with two pensions.

I was closely acquainted with this family, I often ran to visit their apartment in Bolshoi Tishinsky, where the actor had lived for the last 15 years. I saw how Belyavsky idolizes Sashenka, fooling around and playing with her, how affectionately he looks at Mila. They lived poorly. But the atmosphere in the house was really warm.

Like the sun

When Belyavsky died, Lyudmila Tikhonovna stopped communicating. Her phone, no matter how much I tried to call her, was silent.

The other day I again came to this well-known courtyard, where I repeatedly sat with Alexander Borisovich on a bench and watched little Sasha.

Everything is still here. Unless the trees have grown and built a new playground. As before, there are many children with their parents.

I go up to the third floor, where the actor lived, I call. Silence.

- If you are to Lyudmila, then she and her daughter are in the country, - I turn around at a pleasant female voice and see an elderly couple going up the stairs. - For the whole summer, as always, they went there.

Arkady, - the man appears. - We've been living here for a long time. We know the Belyavskys well. Actually, the tragedy happened in front of my eyes. I was on the street. I look - the people crowded at our entrance. I approached - and there Borisych lies. He lived, as you know, on the third floor, and for some reason his cane was found on the fifth. So, he went up there on purpose. And the window is wide open ... What really happened then - who will figure it out now. Mila, his wife, immediately ran up. There was no face on her, she was very grief-stricken. And after the funeral, she withdrew into herself. We practically don't see it. During these five years, we crossed paths several times on the landing. He says hello dryly, lowers his eyes - that's all. Look some sad, tired, I would say. Yes, I understand - she herself is already 67 years old, and Sasha’s most problematic age is coming (the girl will turn 14 on August 28. - L.K.). But she is a good girl - it is unlikely that the quirks will begin.

- Did Lyudmila not have a new man?

What is there! She loved Borisych to madness.

- Is Sashenka also closed, like her mother?

Vice versa. Always very friendly, smiling like the sun. Sasha is beautiful. Dress fashionably. Walks with an iPhone. High - 172 centimeters! All in a folder. Graduated from seventh grade. With one triple. Physically. She doesn’t go to her because of her health, so they put it so, as they say, for show. Now they will have some kind of profile distribution. Sasha chose an in-depth study of foreign languages. Wants to master Italian perfectly. He is engaged in a theater studio. Dreams of becoming an artist. Like Dad. This family was good. Borisych, after a stroke, only thanks to Mila and Sasha, went and spoke. There was a lot of love!

- I wonder what money they live on now? After all, Lyudmila Tikhonovna did not work even under Alexander Borisovich, and now her age is already ...

Mila doesn't seem to be working, yes. But he receives a pension. And Sasha, too - for the loss of a breadwinner. This is another 10-12 thousand per month. Relatives help. They twist out somehow. For good annual marks, Mila took Sasha to Greece. There is no summer at all in Moscow, but it is gorgeous there. They often travel to the Black Sea as well. In Bulgaria, in the city of Ahtopol, Mila's friends live. They visit them. You come in the fall to be sure to catch them. Borisych will have an anniversary.

Future biologist

In the evening, having come home, I found an old notebook. With contacts of friends, colleagues and relatives of Belyavsky. I wanted to call. The latest family news was shared with me by the sister of Alexander Borisovich - Olga:

And we have grief - Vali is gone (Valentina Belyavskaya - the first wife of the actor, the mother of his children Borya and Nadia. - L.K.). She was like a sister to me. Until the end of her days communicated. Valya remained faithful to Sasha all her life. If he wanted to return, he would have accepted without reproach. Mila is also a good person, but unsociable. Now he does not communicate with anyone at all. From the good news: Kostya, the eldest son of Nadia, graduated from school this year, entered the Moscow State University to study biology. Now he has gone to practice near Zvenigorod. I think Sasha would be happy for his grandson. He himself first studied as a geologist at the Institute of Non-Ferrous Metals and Gold. There he met Valya. Lately, he and Sasha rarely communicated. Now, THERE, they will talk a lot ...

IMAGINE!

Lilia Bernes was widowed at 40. The death of Mark Naumovich was a tragedy for a young woman. In a few months, she lost 18 kg. On nervous grounds, ulcer bleeding even opened. She survived two heart attacks. AT last years Lilia Mikhailovna barely made ends meet. Anastasia Vertinskaya helped the wife of the famous artist financially.

And then in December there was a call from Lyudmila Tikhonovna: “Sasha is not well, come ... Stroke ...” Nadia was then on last month pregnancy, but still every day she got behind the wheel and went to her father in the hospital. His speech was severely affected as a result of the stroke. At first, he called everyone Olami, even Nadia. Probably, only this word was given to him. Now Alexander Borisovich visits the Shklovsky speech therapy center, there are very good doctors, and he speaks much better. When he couldn't say what he wanted, he asked for a pen and drew. Then he began to appear in the yard, walking with his little daughter. They stopped inviting me to shoot. And what kind of work can there be in the cinema when a person cannot speak? I was worried, how will he survive this? Cinema - Sasha's life, what he always loved more than anything else.

I was very happy when I found out that he was invited to star in the sequel to the legendary Ryazan film “The Irony of Fate, or Enjoy Your Bath!” At least they let me out in front of the camera.

We have with this film connected, one might say, family history. The famous scene in the bathhouse, where Sasha with Andrey Myagkov, Georgy Burkov and Alexander Shirvindt "every year on December 31st", was filmed at night in the cold pavilion of Mosfilm. They took only palm trees from Sanduny ... And Eldar Ryazanov appointed the shooting day the next after anniversary our wedding with Belyavsky. It's cold - try walking in a towel! - it also hurts my head ... In a word, the men participating in the scene slowly replaced the fake vodka with the real one.

After the first take, the cast felt an unprecedented creative upsurge and demanded a second take, then a third. “Yes, they are in the insole!” - finally noticed the angry director. The next day everything was re-shot. Eldar Alexandrovich personally sniffed all the bottles of ordinary water ... Sasha later said that the film included precisely the first takes, when they got drunk for real, and not attempts acting skills. So quietly and I got into the history of cinema.

An interesting set of circumstances happened last summer. Strangely, it happened ... Nadya with her children and her husband left for Bulgaria, Lyudmila Tikhonovna also went on vacation. They used to always travel together with Alexander Borisovich. And then he refused to go, maybe his health was causing trouble, maybe he just wasn’t in the mood.

Lyudmila Tikhonovna hoped that Nadya would look after Sasha during her departure, and her daughter herself had to leave! And for a whole month we ex-husband stayed at the cottage together. Our dachas are, of course, different. But the fence is common! When he came, I asked: “Do you want to eat?” He replied: "Yes." Well, it’s easier for me to feed, I love to cook. And so Sasha began to come, had breakfast, lunch, dinner and went back to his place. I watched him eat and kept thinking how much I loved him!

- What did you feed him?

Ordinary homemade food. A person with such health problems should eat right - hot soup, vegetables ... At least I think so.

Asked for meat - cooked and meat.

You are a holy woman...

No. I can't kick Sasha out and never could. Everything sad is left far in the past. We are both elderly people, for whom it is already ridiculous to start figuring out or sharing something ... It seems that our relationship has improved. Yes, how else? Not other people...

We thank the Flat-Interiors salon for help in organizing the shooting

Biblical Sarah at the time of the birth of her son was 90 years old. Isn't this a miracle? In the 21st century, grandmothers over 70 give birth, and there is definitely nothing magical about it. Most cases of late childbearing are associated with artificial insemination, although there are exceptions when grandmothers give birth themselves.

Morgan Zantua

Miscarriage at 44, and an American Morgan Zantua I seriously thought that it was already out, in circulation. She stopped taking contraceptives and… 7 years later she found out that she was five months pregnant. At the time of the caesarean section, she turned 51, she had an adult son from her first marriage and a husband dumbfounded by everything that was happening. Sometimes grandmothers give birth without any reasons…

Russian grandmothers give birth too!

Ludmila Belyavskaya

The second wife of actor Alexander Belyavsky - Ludmila Belyavskaya gave birth to a daughter at the age of 52. The "young" father in 2003 was 70 years old.

Debbie Hughes

Englishwoman Debbie Hughes I took birth control pills and still got pregnant. The woman gave birth to a son at the age of 53. By that time (2011) Debbie Hughes already had two sons and two granddaughters. Before Debbie Hughes there was also a daughter, but she tragically died shortly before adulthood.

Solange Koutu

famous brazilian actress Solange Koutu(Dona Jura in the TV series "Clone") met her future husband and father of her late child at an age when most women already have menopause. In 2010, the actress married a student who is 30 years younger than her and at 54 gave birth to her third child.

Aracelia Garcia

American Aracelia Garcia in 2000 struck doctors by the fact that she conceived without hormonal drugs and gave birth (by caesarean section) to triplets.

Elizabeth Greenhill

Englishwoman Elizabeth Greenhill in 1969, at the age of 54, she gave birth to her 39th child. In total, Elizabeth had 38 births in her life (37 times one child each and 1 time twins were born). All her children survived.

Leontina Albina

Chilean Leontina Albina gave birth to a child at the age of 55.

Raisa Akhmadeeva

Russian woman Raisa Akhmadeeva from Ulyanovsk in 2008, by caesarean section, she gave birth to her first child, being at the age of 56 years. The newborn boy weighed 2.6 kg. and had a height of 49 cm.

Natalia Surkova

Natalia Surkova- the oldest mother in Russia. In 1996, a 57-year-old woman who already had two adult children gave birth to a daughter. At birth, the girl weighed 3.45 kg. and had a height of 51 cm.

Dawn Brooke

Dawn Brooke, living on the island of Guernsey (a British possession) in 1997, at the age of 59, gave birth to a son by caesarean section. Hormone therapy helped the woman get pregnant. Today Dawn Brooke is the oldest mother in the history of mankind who gave birth to a living child, conceived in a natural way.

Indian grandmothers give birth for grandfathers

Daljinder Kaur

Inhabitant of India Daljinder Kaur gave birth to her first child at 72 on April 19, 2016. She became a mother 46 years after marriage and 20 years after menopause. The Indian husband is 79 years old. get pregnant grandmother succeeded only after the third IVF procedure. At birth, the weight of the child was two kilograms.

On the first day, I received a lot of responses to my story. Dear companions, many thanks to all. I propose to discuss this, as it turned out, a burning topic a little more. I have collected some materials on statistics.

Until recently, in our hospitals and maternity hospitals, women like me or some of you were called offensive word"old-timers". It turns out that the doctors themselves have abandoned this term. Now such women in labor are called "age". After all, it is impossible to determine the age of old age
It is believed that giving birth after 30 years is quite risky for women's health. Especially if the birth is the first. But the world knows more than one woman who became a mother at a late age. How are things really?
Today in Russia every twelfth child is born from a woman aged 35 and older. Over the past quarter century, the number of women in labor among women aged 35-39 has increased by 90%, and those over forty have begun to give birth 87% more.

In America back in 1971 average age of people who became fathers was 27.2 years. By 2004, it had increased to 32 years. Today, every tenth child is fathered by a man older than 40, and every hundredth - older than 50.

Scientists from the University of Texas believe that today medicine has many opportunities that allow women over the age of 35 to normally endure and give birth to a baby. In addition, they say, such women form the most optimal balance of personal and material possibilities.

And British researchers came to the conclusion that women who become mothers after 35-40 years old turn on the hidden reserves of the body, and as a result they feel better and live longer. At the same time, experts emphasize that after 30, it is necessary to carefully approach the bearing and birth of a baby - to be observed by a gynecologist and undergo all the necessary procedures. Moms after 30 value their pregnancy very much. They suffered through many attempts or consciously became a mother after a long period of time and the older children are no longer 10 years old. And, of course, we, the age mom, do not need to explain the need for testing on time, and we do not forget to drink all the necessary vitamins.

After wandering around the expanses of the Internet, I collected some data about those who still stand with us in the same row:
Last year, the Izvestia newspaper published an article about the teacher kindergarten Raisa Safievna Akhmadeeva from Ulyanovsk, who gave birth to her first child at the age of 56.
She lived her whole life with her husband in civil marriage, raised children from her first marriage. The eldest is now 35, the youngest is 26. All live in Kazan. They are like relatives, but they wanted common children so much. All these years she could not give birth. Couldn't bear fruit. She suffered miscarriage after miscarriage. The last time it happened was 17 years ago. Since then, I have not even been able to get pregnant.
The doctors of the Ulyanovsk polyclinic for a long time could not believe what had happened. There have never been such patients here. By the way, Raisa Safievna felt fine, there was no toxicosis. She smiled and said that she would give birth herself. She refused a caesarean section.
When civil husband found out about his wife's pregnancy, he immediately proposed. And before the birth of the baby, pensioners officially legalized the relationship.
When the contractions began, the doctors nevertheless convinced her to have a caesarean section, although the pensioner could well have given birth on her own. "We had no right to take risks!" doctors explain.
The child is an absolutely healthy boy weighing 2630 grams and 49 centimeters tall. And from the very first day the woman began to breastfeed him!

record-breaking moms
1. Lyudmila Belyavskaya, 52 years old. Before the Ulyanovsk heroine, the wife could be considered the main record holder in Russia famous actor Alexander Belyavsky. What makes our women different? Lyudmila, like a resident of Ulyanovsk, had been waiting for her first child for many years and ... did without any artificial insemination! And daughter Sasha was born absolutely healthy.
2. Susan Tollefsen, 57 She gave birth to her first child, daughter Frey, in March 2008 after a long treatment in a Russian clinic. Before that, there were several unsuccessful attempts at conception and three miscarriages. Susan visits regularly gym and spends a lot of time with her daughter. They live with a partner who is 11 years younger than Susan.
3. Liz Battle, 60 years old. She was a widow, but really wanted to give a gift to her 41-year-old boyfriend. Liz hid her age, saying that she was 49 years old. In 1997, she gave birth to a son, Joe, her second child (her eldest daughter was 41 years old).
4. Patricia Rushbrook, 62 Child psychologist Rushbrook, PhD, gave birth to a son, Jude, in 2006. This happened after the fifth attempt, which cost 18 thousand dollars. Patricia already had three adult children from her first marriage. But she passionately wanted to give the child to her second husband.
5. Patricia Farrant, 62 An Englishwoman gave birth at the Royal Hospital in Sussex (Brington) to a boy weighing 2.7 kg. She became a mother for the third time. Patricia and her new husband, 60-year-old John Farrant, decided they needed common child, - and used the IVF procedure.
6. Jenny, 62 years old. A French woman and her 52-year-old brother Robert had to deceive doctors in the US by saying they were a married couple. Jenny could not undergo artificial insemination in her homeland, since in France, older women are not allowed to be treated for infertility. The "married couple" had a boy. Now they all live in their French home with their 80-year-old mother.
7. Eliasa Karama, 64. A resident of Germany at the age of 64 gave birth to a daughter weighing about 2 kg in the Aschaffenburg clinic in southern Bavaria. couple I had to resort to IVF. For a donor egg, it was necessary to travel outside the country, since such operations are prohibited in Germany.
8. Carmela Busada, 66 years old. The oldest and desperate mom- 66-year-old US resident Carmela Busada - gave birth to two charming twin daughters. She decided on IVF after the death of her 101-year-old mother, with whom she lived all her life. Now she is looking for a father for her babies - preferably younger.
9. Rajo Devi, 70 years old. At 70, she gave birth to a daughter. This happened in 2008, as a result of IVF, for which 4 thousand dollars were spent. Spouse Rajo was 72 years old. “Friends and relatives are very happy and they will gladly take care of their daughter if something happens to us.”

Stars who gave birth after 40
47 years old: Holly Hunter, first birth, twin boys (2006);
45 years old: Susan Sarandon, third child - son Miles (1991);
45 years old: Sheri Blair, fourth child - son Leo (1999);
42 years old: Irina Khakamada, second child - daughter Masha (1997);
41 years old: Madonna, second child - son Rocco (2000);
41 years old: Goldie Hawn, fourth child - son White (1986);
41 years old: Elena Proklova, second daughter Polina (1994);
41 years old: Kim Basinger, first-born - daughter of Ireland Elissa (1995);
41 years old: Salma Hayek, firstborn - daughter of Valentina-Paloma (2007);
40 years old: Larisa Guzeeva, second child - daughter Lelya (1999);
40 years old: Ema Thompson, first-born - daughter Gaia (1999);
40 years old: Elena Khanga, first-born - daughter Elizabeth-Anna (2002);
40 years old: Marina Zudina, second child - daughter Masha (2005);
40 years old: Tatyana Lazareva, third child - daughter Antonina (2006);

As well as. Fashion models Claudia Schiffer and Cindy Crawford became mothers at 35 and 36 respectively. Julia Roberts gave birth to twins at the age of 37.
Singer Madonna gave birth to her first child at 36.
Elena Yakovleva, Lolita Milyavskaya decided on motherhood when they were already over thirty.
Nicole Kidman and Halle Barry gave birth at 41.
Marina Neelova had a daughter when she was 41 years old.
Actress Beverly D'Angelo, Al Pacino's girlfriend, gave birth to his adorable twins when she was 49.

There is nothing to say about the famous “late dads”: Roman Polanski, Paul McCartney, Rod Stewart, Anthony Quinn, Kevin Costner - they all became fathers at the age at which they usually become grandfathers.

That's it, dear ladies. We are not alone. And before the age of 70, we still have a lot of time.
What do you think about this?

Of course, pregnancy and childbirth at this age has its pros and cons, but more on that next time.

Best wishes to you. Joy, love, patience and understanding