The voice of a woman. Male and female singing voices

The timbre of the voice is the brightness of the sound, its individuality, transmitted during singing. The sound is determined by the fundamental tone and additional sounds, called overtones. The more overtones, the brighter and more colorful the voice will be. The natural amount of overtones combined with is the secret to a mesmerizing voice.

Voice timbre, types

The most pleasant timbre is considered to be a voice that has the correct modulation, both in high and low tones. In fact, any voice with the right approach can be placed. And that means giving it a professional sound. To do this, you need to learn to control the frequency of the voice, as well as the emotional coloring. This is easy to do with the help of a vocal specialist. To determine your own timbre, you need to know what voice timbres are in general. There are several main types:

• tenor. This is the highest male voice. It can be lyrical or dramatic.
• baritone;
• bass. The lowest timbre of the voice in comparison with the above. It is central or melodious.

• soprano. This is a very high pitched voice. There is a lyric soprano, dramatic and coloratura.
• mezzo-soprano;
• contralto. This is a low voice.

What does timbre depend on?

The fundamental factor in the formation of timbre is the vocal cords. It is almost impossible to find several people who are able to sing the same way. It is unlikely that you will be able to change your voice drastically. But if you turn to the teacher, then it is quite possible to improve its coloring.

How to determine the timbre of the voice?

Independently, without having certain knowledge and skills, it is almost impossible to determine the timbre. At home, you can only presumably attribute your voice to one or another type of timbre. The most accurate data can be obtained using specialized equipment - a spectrometer. It studies the outgoing sound, and then classifies it in the right direction. You can read more about spectrometers at the end of the article.

How to change the timbre of the voice

The timbre of the voice largely depends on the characteristics of the human body. Great importance have the volume, shape of the trachea and oral resonator, as well as the density of the closure of the vocal cords. Therefore, it is not possible to radically change the sound of the voice.

However, you can give the timbre the desired color by adding low or high overtones and achieving their perfect balance. To do this, there are various exercises, for example, pronouncing the soft fricative "g".

The shape of the lips and the position of the tongue have a great influence on the timbre. You can experiment, for example, change the position of the jaw and talk with a fixed lower lip.

At the age of three, the model of a person's voice changes, he becomes more restrained. We diligently control the volume and intonation, tense the vocal cords, and as a result use only a small part of our capabilities. How to restore the natural voice,? Exercises and techniques will also help you with this. Detailed information you can learn about them by watching the video:

What affects the timbre of the voice?

1. The first thing to note is smoking. The longer the experience of this addiction, the lower the timbre of the voice will be.
2. Poor nutrition, chronic sleep deprivation. You need to understand that any mood, be it good or bad, affects the timbre of the voice.
3. Hypothermia, cold. Everything is obvious here. You need to protect yourself from the cold, try not to drink ice-cold drinks and refuse ice cream.
4. Growing up period. In adolescence, the timbre of the voice becomes coarser. Of course, this process cannot be changed.

Spectrometer and more

The device that is used to determine the timbre of the voice is called a spectrometer. His device includes a microphone. special purpose and sound amplifier. During its operation, the sound is divided into components using electro-acoustic filters. The whole process is displayed on the instrument display. Then the device in certain formats explores the composition of speech sounding, since it is the speech format that has a direct impact on the recognition of voice sounding in singing. Most often, the recognition of the timbre of the voice by the device is carried out by the way the first three vowels are pronounced.

How to know your voice tone? It is best to sign up for several classes with a qualified specialist in the production of a singing voice. To determine the timbre, they use parameters such as tessitura endurance and some other features.

In order to determine the timbre of the voice, the vocal teacher selects works that have different tessitura. This allows you to determine which note pitch best suits a particular vocalist. Singing several pieces of music with different musical octaves, you can determine in which of them it is easy and comfortable to sing, and in which one you have to sing with the tension of the vocal cords. Each person tends to take notes of a certain height. Only an experienced teacher will be able to correctly assess the range and timbre of each vocalist's voice by how he sings individual notes in a certain octave, and will name the main differences between a falsetto and a chest voice or a tenor from a baritone.

All singing voices are divided into women's, men's and children's. The main female voices are soprano, mezzo-soprano and contralto, and the most common male voices are tenor, baritone and bass.

All sounds that can be sung or played on musical instrument, there are high, medium and low. Musicians, when talking about the pitch of sounds, use the term "register", meaning whole groups of high, medium or low sounds.

In a global sense, female voices sing high or "upper" register sounds, children's voices sing middle register sounds, and male voices sing low or "lower" sounds. But this is only partly true, in fact, everything is much more interesting. Within each of the groups of voices, and even within the range of each individual voice, there is also a division into high, medium and low registers.

So, for example, a high male voice is a tenor, a middle one is a baritone, and a low one is a bass. Or, another example, the singers have the highest voice - the soprano, the middle voice of the vocalists is the mezzo-soprano, and the low one is the contralto. To finally master the division of male and female, well, at the same time, children's voices into high and low, this plate will help you:

If we talk about the registers of any one voice, then each of them has both low sounds and high ones. For example, a tenor sings both low chest sounds and high falsetto sounds, which are not available to basses or baritones.

Female singing voices

So, the main types of female singing voices are soprano, mezzo-soprano and contralto. They differ primarily in range, as well as in timbre coloration. The timbre properties include, for example, such as transparency, lightness or, conversely, saturation, voice power.

Soprano- the female highest singing voice, its usual range is two octaves (entirely the first and second octaves). In opera performances, the parts of the main characters are often performed by singers with such a voice. If speak about artistic images, then best of all a high voice characterizes a young girl or some fantastic character (for example, a fairy).

Soprano, according to the nature of the sound, is divided into lyrical and dramatic- you yourself can easily imagine that the parts of a very tender girl and a very passionate girl cannot be performed by the same performer. If the voice can easily cope with fast passages and graces in its high register, then such a soprano is called coloratura.

Contralto- it has already been said that this is the lowest of the female voices, moreover, very beautiful, velvety, and also very rare (in some opera houses there is not a single contralto). A singer with such a voice in operas is often entrusted with the role of teenage boys.

Below is a tablet that gives examples of opera parts that are often performed by one or another female singing voice:

Let's hear how female singing voices sound. Here are three video examples for you:

Soprano. Aria of the Queen of the Night from the opera The Magic Flute by Mozart performed by Bela Rudenko

Mezzo-soprano. Habanera from the opera "Carmen" by Bizet performed by the famous singer - Elena Obraztsova

Contralto. Ratmir's aria from the opera "Ruslan and Ludmila" by Glinka performed by Elizaveta Antonova.

Male singing voices

There are only three main male voices - tenor, bass and baritone. Tenor of these, the highest, its pitch range is the notes of the small and first octaves. By analogy with the soprano timbre, performers with this timbre are divided into dramatic tenors and lyric tenors. In addition, sometimes they mention such a variety of singers as "characteristic" tenor. "Character" is given to it by some phonic effect - for example, silveriness or rattling. The characteristic tenor is simply indispensable where you want to create the image of a gray-haired old man or some sly rogue.

Baritone- this voice is distinguished by its softness, density and velvety sound. The range of sounds that a baritone can sing is within the limits of the la large octave to the la of the first octave. Performers with such a timbre are often entrusted with the courageous roles of heroic or patriotic characters in operas, however, the softness of the voice allows one to reveal love-lyrical images.

Bass- the voice is the lowest, can sing sounds from the F of a large octave to the F of the first. Basses are different: some are booming, “humming”, “bell-shaped”, others are hard and very “graphic”. Accordingly, the parts of characters for basses are diverse: these are heroic, and “fatherly”, and ascetic, and even comic images.

Probably, you are interested to know which of the male singing voices is the lowest? it bass profundo, sometimes singers with such a voice are also called Octavists, since they "take" low notes from the counteroctave. By the way, we have not yet mentioned the highest male voice - this tenor altino or countertenor, who sings quite calmly in an almost female voice and easily reaches the high notes of the second octave.

As in the previous case, male singing voices with examples of their opera parts are displayed in the tablet:

Now listen to what male singing voices sound like. Here are three more videos for you.

Tenor. Song of the Indian guest from the opera "Sadko" by Rimsky-Korsakov performed by David Poslukhin.

Baritone. Gliere's romance "Sweetly sang the soul-nightingale", sung by Leonid Smetannikov

Bass. Prince Igor's aria from Borodin's opera "Prince Igor" was originally written for baritone, but in this case it is sung by one of the best basses of the 20th century, Alexander Pirogov.

The working range of the voice of a professionally trained vocalist is usually two octaves on average, sometimes, however, singers and singers have much more opportunities. In order for you to be well-versed in tessituras when choosing notes for practice, I suggest that you get acquainted with a drawing that clearly demonstrates the allowable ranges for each of the voices:

Before concluding, I want to please you with one more sign, with the help of which you can get acquainted with vocalists who have one or another timbre of voice. This is necessary so that you can independently find and listen to even more audio examples of the sound of male and female singing voices:

That's all! We talked about what kind of voices singers and singers have, figured out the basics of their classification, the size of the ranges, the expressive possibilities of timbres, and also listened to examples of the sound of the voices of famous vocalists. If you liked the material, share it on your page in contact or on your Twitter feed. To do this, under the article there are special buttons. Good luck!

word of the expert

While working on the text, we consulted with a voice professional. Meet the Candidate medical sciences, professor, doctor the highest category, homeopath, ENT-phoniatrist at the Institute of Contemporary Art Natalia Olenchik. Before you move on to looking for jokes in this article, Natalya Vladimirovna asked you to read this in all seriousness: Dear readers! This article has collected basic recommendations that can help improve your voice. It remains for me to add that each person is individual and without a personal visit to the doctor it is difficult to say which advice should be taken into account in the first place. Specific example. The text says that smoking causes aseptic inflammation of the vocal folds. However, I happened to work with two patients who smoke a lot for a long time, but their folds remain absolutely healthy, and their voice does not change. Of course, we are talking about exceptions, but you need to understand that to one degree or another, each of us is an exception. I would recommend this article as a basic course for working on your own voice. For some this will be enough. For everyone else, after a few months of daily exercises, you need to contact a specialist to draw up a further lesson plan that will be adapted specifically for you. And remember that you can't change your own voice, you can only improve it. Please note that the text is intended for healthy people without chronic diseases and pathologies in the larynx and the entire respiratory system. The recommendations do not apply to singers, actors and announcers: people in these professions need special exercises.

If you know that some annoyance can be changed, you try to fix it. The vision began to fall - I went to the optometrist. I didn’t like the body - I bought a fitness subscription. Tired of dragging a translator around with me, I put him back in the storage room and learned twenty languages. Dissatisfaction with our own voice is one of those annoyances that many of us put up with without even trying to fix it. To most, this seems as unlikely as life on Mars or the victory of the Russian national team in figure skating in the World Cup. Actually getting your voice to be the way you like it is not that hard. A little free time, a little patience and a lot of this article are enough. Do you need it? Surely you have met girls fanatically removing freckles; people with minus seven vision who stubbornly refuse to wear glasses, and men combing the scanty mop of remaining hair on the back of their bald heads. But, you must admit, there are many people who incredibly suit glasses, sparkling bald heads and girls with freckles. Why are we? Before you begin to improve your voice, you need to make sure that this is really necessary. We have compiled two lists of reasons that indicate that something needs to be done about your voice. The first list enumerates external causes, emanating from the surrounding reality. The second is your internal. External causes 1. The phrase “Repeat, please” from others you hear not much less often than “Hi!” or "How are you?" At the same time, you are absolutely sure that you speak clearly and loudly enough. “Whether a person will perceive what you say depends on the voice by 30–40%,” says Natalya Olenchik. It is probably because of him that people miss your words. 2. Unexpectedly for yourself, you can start or end a phrase in an unnatural voice: either too high or too low. In particular advanced cases you squeal like a sausage-eating troll. 3. From time to time, honest people fall into your hands who say to your face that your voice does not match your appearance (age, social status, the number of hamburgers you can eat at one time) or just plain nasty. Local causes Below are the main characteristics of the voice, which is worth working on. Our happiness if this list includes at least one epithet that characterizes the sounds you make, because in this case you will surely read this text to the end! You can mow down from reading only because of illness: in order to appreciate the sound of your own voice, you first need to be healthy (flat feet do not count). █ Too high.
█ Husky.
█ Nasal.
█ Trembling.
█ With hoarseness (rarely slipping "signature" hoarseness is not considered).
█ With shortness of breath.
█ Tense (strained, sharp - as you like). How to speak with your voice Another section that will help you to cherish the hope of the tolerability of your own voice for a while. It's possible you're making the wrong sounds. “People who speak unnaturally are quite common,” the expert says. “Moreover, a person usually does not realize the unnaturalness of his voice, he is used to speaking that way.” To start speaking (singing, screaming, boiling potatoes) with your own voice, you need to go through three steps. Let's take a closer look at three of them.

Breathing exercises

one . Remember the army, even if you only saw it in nightmares. Hands at the seams! Bend over with your back bent and take a short but noisy breath. The neck should be relaxed. Gently straighten up (but not completely), allowing the air to slowly exit. Bend over again and inhale sharply again. Well, then you know. Repeat everything 8-10 times, take a five-minute break and repeat again (there should be 8 sets of 8-10 breaths in total). After a few days of training, the number of breaths in one approach can be doubled.
2. Stand up straight. And don't slouch! During a smooth inhalation, spread your arms to the sides and lift them up. Hold your hands and breath for a few seconds. Then sharply bend over and exhale with noise (hands down too). Repeat every day 2-3 times.

█ Shout and sing. “Better in the shower or toilet. There are good acoustics, and you will have the opportunity to hear yourself,” says Natalia Olenchik. Do not forget to sing long notes: the ability to hold them evenly will make your voice more confident. Put your breath
What will you fix:
nasality, trembling, hoarseness, shortness of breath, tension█ Breathe with diaphragmatic (lower) breathing. “Inhale deeply so that the belly comes forward with each breath. At the same time, the chest and shoulders should remain motionless (many lift them up), our consultant advises. “Speak on your breath.” █ Talk a lot. “Recommendations by some experts to set the breath while reading passages from books do not work well, because they are not related to real speech situations. The exception is people who, by virtue of their profession, have to read texts aloud (actors, presenters, etc.), ”explains Natalia Olenchik and encourages you to speak during classes the way you do it in real life. █ Begin to set your breath by speaking in English. This language treats the voice apparatus much more carefully than Russian, and therefore it will be easier to get used to following the rules. █ Do breathing exercises. “Which one is not so important. You can use the technique of A. N. Strelnikova, ”advises Natalya Olenchik. Here we give a couple of exercises as an example - from them and start.

Articulation exercises

one . Pull forward closed lips, and then spread into a wide smile.
2. Alternately raise and lower your upper and lower lips, showing everyone your teeth.
3. Move your lower jaw back and forth, and then open your mouth wide, as if you decided to measure the distance from the refrigerator to the gas stove.
four . Stick out your tongue and make figure eights in the air. You can also draw other numbers with your tongue.
5 . Loudly and clearly pronounce the sounds [b], [m], [c] and [p] in turn.

For this, too, there is a special - articulatory - gymnastics. And do not rush to run to pay for the Internet to find a few exercises there. All of them are simpler than the Zhiguli and are aimed at developing the facial muscles, tongue and jaw. Rubbing the face in circular motions with the tips of the fingers, savory yawns with simultaneous attempts to say something intelligible, dangling the tongue and spanking the lips in different ways will be enough. For greater clarity, we give you a few exercises. Well, do you remember everything? Not? Then it is better to re-read the article again and be careful. Of course, you can always relax and quickly solve the voice problem surgically. To do this, it is enough to apply with a corresponding request to the ENT department of any medical university. But since operations on the vocal folds are a wildly complicated thing, they can only help you with little things - the removal of singing nodules, fibroids and tumor-like formations. This will get rid of hoarseness in the voice, but, unfortunately, will not make it more courageous (that is, lower in sound). Oh yes, even with the help of the operation, you can make the voice much thinner and higher. But this, it seems to us, will hardly interest you.

About how to charm a man by just talking to him, when and how to be silent, why female voice should be “lined with velvet” and what voices annoy men, said famous psychologist Annetta Orlova who wrote a monograph on the subject.

If our soul is reflected in the eyes, then the voice is a mirror of character. Intonation can color speech with warm shades of joy and self-confidence, or add cold notes of arrogance and selfishness to what has been said. Therefore, not only what you say is important, but also how you sound.

Despite the fact that women love with their ears, the voice of the interlocutor for a man is also important. A pleasant speech melody will not leave the listener indifferent, the timbre of the voice will complement and complete the image.

For different voices...

There is an opinion that a low voice sounds more pleasant and sexier, it seems that the writer also thought so. Brendan Francis Bian. He said that men will always admire a woman whose voice is lined with velvet. Indeed, falling in love with the owner of a deep voice is not difficult, since her speech is saturated with self-sufficiency, strength and confidence. Such a woman looks inaccessible, it is not surprising that the instinct of a hunter wakes up in men and there is a desire to possess her.

Besides, an aspirated voice will help excite a man. Whatever the girl is talking about, the words intertwined with the breath will tell the listener that he is interested in her sexually.

For those with a high voice less fortunate, since piercing notes are often associated with interlocutors with youth and immaturity. But in the event that a man plays the role of a father in a relationship, a girl with a high voice will be an ideal companion for him.

Loud and harsh voice evokes opposite associations. Most often, the owners of such a voice tend to control others, they want to control and command. This option, most likely, is suitable for a man who has forever remained a child, he will feel in a woman with such a voice the support that is so necessary for him.

On the first date

charm strong man a meek girl can easily be able to, and the melody of her voice will help to emphasize the desire to be protected. On a date, it is better to speak quietly and measuredly., maintain semantic pauses, use adjectives and metaphors, exclude harsh words and phrases. It is also necessary to monitor your facial expressions and gestures, they should complement speech, and not conflict with it. It can be a downcast look, smooth and not too active hand movements. But a woman's voice should not be lifeless. A man's attention will be attracted by light emotionality and freshness in the speech of the interlocutor.

If a woman wants to charm a soft and docile man, then she needs to emphasize her strength. Speech in this case should be clear, clear and even overly emotional, and the look of such an interlocutor should express self-confidence. You definitely don’t need to look at the pattern on the floor in a cafe, as well as fiddling with a napkin during a conversation.

By the way, Patricia Kaas- the owner of a sexy, bewitching voice - gesticulates quite actively and sharply, her gait conflicts with her voice, which breaks the unity of the impression. She is a prime example as non-verbal means communication may contradict the melody of the voice.

In a conversation with a man of dreams, it is important to keep track of time and do not forget about pauses.. It has been proven that a man can listen to the interlocutor's speech for no more than 20 seconds, everything that is said after this time he will either not perceive, or (even worse) will begin to get annoyed. However, compliments uttered softly and sexy voice, the man does not get tired of listening.

Anyway, to hook a man, you need to be able not only to speak, but also to listen to him. Embed constructions such as “I understand you”, “I am so interested with you”, “I like listening to your stories” in your speech. In addition, it is necessary to remember the words and phrases that he uses and sometimes pronounce them. And if a man asks: “What was I talking about?”, try to repeat the end of the phrase, he will appreciate how carefully you listened to him.

Uncertain speech is annoying

It is rather difficult for an insecure woman to attract the attention of men, things are even worse if a girl is used to complaining about her life. Naturally, the intonation will immediately reveal all the problems of the mistress of the voice.
For example, drawling sounds, slurred speech or stammering are signs that a woman needs constant care from her companion. It is likely that the first conversation with a man will be the last.

Assertiveness, turning into strong aggression, and masculine notes in the voice women will also cause negative emotions in men, after all, they are looking for tenderness and care in us.

Rapid active speech makes the voice fill with harsh undertones, it is tiring - it is not very pleasant to endure stress for a long time.
A real man will always gravitate towards a soft woman, whose speech and plasticity are soft. If a woman has a low voice, then the whole world is in her pocket.

Working on mistakes: exercises for voice and speech

“If beautiful voices were sold in supermarkets, they would have many buyers. It’s a pity that they haven’t thought of this yet, ”said the magnificent Marlene Dietrich. Can you imagine what a queue would be lined up for a soft, velvety voice? But while there is no such product on the shelves of supermarkets, you can work on your intonation and speech on your own.

The shackled body is a real prison for a soft voice. Therefore, first of all, you need to remove all the clamps, allow your body to open up. The released sexual energy will rise up the spinal column and allow the voice to sound softer and more attractive. They will help to get rid of the shackles of the body, dancing classes: the body will become more flexible, movements - plastic, and the voice is sexier.

Take some vocal lessons, an experienced teacher will show you the basics of correct breathing and remove the clamps that prevent your voice from sounding melodious. Start your day with a good gentle song performed by you and dance to the sound of your own voice!

Intonation helps us to convey the idea to the interlocutor, if we speak monotonously, on one note, the listener will stop perceiving the information. But in this matter, nowhere without training. For practice, take a few minutes and read excerpts from books. Take, for example, Bunin's stories about love, voice the dialogues of the characters with a gentle voice and, with a romantic mood, go out to meet your love now.

From the volume of your voice depends on how the interlocutor will perceive you, so you need to adjust it. Say the numbers from one to ten at different volumes and determine which sound is best for you. But remember that if you are in a noisy place, the volume must be increased, otherwise the interlocutor will regard your quiet speech as disrespectful to himself.

Learn to clearly articulate your thoughts, then you will create the impression of a self-confident woman. Rehearse in front of a mirror, watch your gestures, control them, because fussy hand movements will betray your self-doubt.

Look at how the cat moves(this is the most attractive image for men). Imagine yourself as a catwoman and try to make your gestures just as graceful. Waking up, gently, like a cat, stretch in bed. When preparing breakfast, move like a cat, for example, walk slightly on tiptoe - this will add softness to your body, and therefore your voice. If your voice lacks sexuality, try purring and meowing every morning.

What voices do men like?

Romantic ideas about perfect couple draw us tall man with a low, hoarse voice, and a fragile woman with a high, gentle voice. This picture has a real biological basis. According to statistics, men with deep voices have more children than "tenors": with an increase in testosterone levels in men, the tone of voice drops. In women, during ovulation (that is, at a time favorable for conception), the general tone of the voice rises (as a result of an increase in the level of estradiol, the female sex hormone). That is, by virtue of ancient natural laws, women subconsciously look for partners with a low voice, and men are “drawn” to the owners of high voices.

And (oh, how often I hear this!) men break their voices, trying to sound lower, “sexier”, and women, in the presence of a potential partner, unconsciously “raise” their voice. But the result, alas, most often does not meet expectations. A man who artificially lowers his natural tone of voice looks ridiculous: such attempts to give himself masculinity are like the desire of a frog to swell up to the size of an ox, and can only cause a smile in women.

And an artificially high female voice, as a rule, irritates men: instead of “cute chirping”, you get lisping, and hysteria is heard in rising intonations. How to bring your voice closer to the “ideal”, so that it attracts, rather than repels your partner?

First of all, allow yourself to speak naturally. What does your voice sound like when you sigh in relief, or moan, or yawn? This is your natural voice: get used to it! Perhaps you don’t like it, it seems “rude”, not “corresponding to standards”, but when you believe that this is your voice, it will already be possible to “agree” with it. Teach him to obey, to sound louder, quieter, higher, lower, louder, more transparent ... A natural voice will never cause irritation or ridicule in your interlocutor, because he, the voice, is a reflection of your soul, broadcasts your openness, sincerity, readiness for contact.

Can you change your voice? (voice exercises)

Change - no, adjust - yes.

How technically to achieve such a sound?

1. Hold your palms in front of your open mouth and, as in the cold, warm them with your breath: the hotter your breath, the more your larynx is open and, accordingly, the closer access to the lower resonators, which give depth and volume to your voice. Do not try to breathe loudly and strongly, let your breath be light and hot.

2. Then, keeping the same feeling, add some sound to the breath. Gradually turn up the volume as long as the warm breath persists.

4. When you master this exercise, add separate syllables to the voice stream, into the vowels O, A, then E, U, I. Do not forget about the “hot spring”!

5. And finally, move on to words and phrases. Your speech will be not only gentle, but deep and melodious.

Give your voice at least ten minutes a day, and the result will not be slow to affect. A voice filled with breath sounds penetrating, echoes in the depths of your interlocutor's consciousness, awakens feelings and desires, remains in memory for a long time, along with the words that he utters.

Of course, in addition to breathing, its timbre, intonation, and rhythm of speech are no less important for the sexual attractiveness of the voice. Having mastered the whole complex of voice skills, you will not only increase your “sexual rating”, but also acquire a powerful communication tool - for love, for business, for understanding yourself as a full-fledged person.

How to please the man of your dreams?

By ear. Develop your ear, and you will be able to hear his speech, like a song, "learn" it and sing it to him, but with your own voice!
Hear how he speaks: at what pace, how often he pauses, what intonations he uses, how smooth his speech is, how and where he puts accents ....
If you can hear this, adjust the natural sound of your voice to this tempo, rhythm, intonation ....
And beautiful stranger in an unknown way, he will feel that he knows you, as if, a long time ago, almost like himself, he will feel the location and trust and will certainly want to continue communication!