Wishes to the guy who returned from the army. Military service: how do you feel about it? How I was waiting for my son from the army - What did he say

Returns younger son from service in the Ministry of Emergency Situations. Father and older brother ask: - Well, tell me, how is it served in the Ministry of Emergency Situations? And then we are only a long time in Soviet army they served, but in the Ministry of Emergencies they say, how they serve. The son replies: - Yes, complete ******* ism. There is nothing to tell. - Tell me. - Yes, what to tell, if you want, I'll show you better. In the evening we gather at the table, we will hold a meeting, the daily routine for tomorrow. They gather at the table in the evening. Son: - So, it means tomorrow: at 6 in the morning we get up, at 8 for breakfast, at 10 we leave for firewood. The father is appointed responsible for the transport - you will harness the horse, and the older brother is appointed responsible for the inventory - 3 axes, 3 saws, 3 ropes. Father and older brother are indignant: - On *** get up so early? Let's get up at 9, have breakfast at 9:30, leave at 10. Son: Not ****, at 6 we wake up, at 8 breakfast, at 10 we leave for firewood. Well, we got up at 6, harnessed the horse in 5 minutes, collected equipment, walked from corner to corner until 8, had breakfast, walked from corner to corner until 10, finally 10 o'clock. View inventory. - 3 axes, 3 saws, everything is in place. We load the inventory, we leave. Sit down, let's go. Pass 100 meters, son: - Stop! Inventory check. Father and brother: - What test? Just checked. Son: - Not ****. At the last check, something *****at could. Stopped. We laid out 3 axes, 3 saws, everything is in place. We load the inventory, we go further. And so every 100 meters. They drive up to the river. Son: - So, here we are fucking wade. Father: - Why? 300 meters away from the bridge, let's go across the bridge. Son: - Not ****! So you've wasted a lot of time. I said wade means wade. They fucked up. They drowned the cart. Barely pulled out. Toward evening we reached the forest. Chopped, drunk. Son: - We load inventory, we load firewood. Downloaded, let's go. After 100 meters: - Stop! Inventory check. Father and brother: - On ***, he's under the wood. Son: - Not ****, unload. Unloaded, checked: 3 axes, 3 saws, everything is in place. We load inventory, we load firewood. And so every 100 meters. They drive up to the river. Son: - So, here we are fucking wade. Father and brother: - On ***? Let's go across the bridge. Son: - Not ****! Wade. Well. The cart was drowned, barely pulled out. Firewood went down the river. Somehow we got home. Son: - So, no one should leave, in an hour there will be a meeting: summarizing the results for today and clarifying the tasks for tomorrow. Gathered. Son: - So, what did we do today and what was the result? Father: - The whole day ******, no result. Son: - That's right! So tomorrow: at 6 we get up, at 8 for breakfast, at 10 we leave for firewood.

There is a shorter version:
At 6 am, the whole village woke up from an eerie sound made by a hanging rail on the main square in front of the village council. After 5 minutes, the entire square was filled with people, everyone came running. Demobilization stopped hammering on the rail, went up to the crowd and ordered:
- Get up! Level up ... set aside! Level up! Attention!!! So... now we are going with my father and brother for firewood, the rest are on schedule. Disperse!

My sons are already adults, each has his own family. But I still remember my very first feelings, when I first had one son, then the second: Oh my God, these are boys, they should go to the army ...

It was a topic on which my husband and I were not unanimous. He, having studied at the institute with military department, I received my army experience in 2 months of training. And he argued that the boys should go to the army. I, purely in a feminine way, and even having heard a lot of different creepy stories, was categorically against it and said that I would do everything possible so that my children would not serve in the army ...

Time passed, the sons grew up. The younger one was diagnosed with asthma - at that time we lived in a city with a large chemical production, and he was very tiny when an accident occurred there, a couple of years after which such consequences with the respiratory organs appeared. However, this is a completely different story. The elder graduated from the university and decided to join the army. At that time, my husband worked in Moscow, and we lived in Kirov. I was very worried - but I just tried to prepare my son morally to the best of my ability, and he himself prepared physically as best he could.

Next was mystical story. A week before the call, I was in Moscow, and passing by the Danilov Monastery, I went into one of its churches. And there is a counter with information that applications are being accepted here for a prayer service at the skete of St. Sergius of Radonezh. And this is just the heavenly patron of my Seryoga ... In general, I ordered a prayer service for a year - just about the life of the Seryoga. And then another one, already in another temple. And returned home. It's time for the call. My son and I parted, of course, I was very worried - where, how was he there ... A week later, my husband calls and says: the son said - he is in the part located 15 minutes from the house where the husband lived, and that they every morning they run past his house cross-country ...

Then we were sworn in by the whole family - by that time the youngest had entered the university and studied in Moscow. Part in the center of Moscow, at the General Staff. I was just incredibly lucky - my husband came to Seryoga every week with a bag of goodies, and he was happy about it like a child. And of course, communication with his father, too. Sometimes I came too. True, they were rarely released into the city. Since the son's specialty is IT and English, he spent quite a good year this year. He was one of the main IT specialists there, he was responsible for the computer economy. And from time to time he taught English to the teenage daughter of his commander, and walked her a couple of times in Gorky Park. And he also gave concerts to the commander of the unit. It was funny - Seryoga is a master of bamboo ethnic flutes, makes them to order, teaches how to play, and plays well himself. Something exotic. Here the commander invited him from time to time to listen to the meditative music of the flute ...

Well, this is so, pleasant moments that did not exclude huge physical loads and everything that a soldier is supposed to go through. What kind of tests the fathers-commanders didn’t arrange for them ... Either a long run in chemical protection suits with full ammunition, then getting up in the middle of the night and the task of doing 1000 (thousand) jumps out of the squat, then falling down, pushing up to complete exhaustion, and then the same amount without a break... Thank God, the commander got bored waiting up to a thousand, and after the 600th he let them go in peace... But even this is impossible to imagine. There were many overcomings that sonny learned to make super-efforts. And it was the very experience that he now, after 6 years after the service, still appreciates very much.

Of course, not everything was so smooth - already in the first half of the service he managed to catch pneumonia, and somehow it was all stupidly staged by them (and this is in the part of the General Staff, in the center of Moscow), that in part he was not treated at all - exactly until he lost consciousness and collapsed in the barracks. I knew about his illness, called up. And reported to the medical unit to pay attention. And nifiga ... You know - at that time I had such feelings that I understood how suicide bombers appear ... Such darkness and dregs in my soul rose that if I were there, I don’t know what nonsense I could have messed up... The church helped me, praying in front of my favorite icons (moreover, I can’t classify myself as a real believer, I don’t go to church often, I don’t follow all the rules). But the soul was cleansed - and there the son was sent to the hospital, and he was treated normally ... Oh, but of course there were enough experiences.

But thank God, this year is over, my son returned home. And went usual life. In which he recalls his army experience kindly, with gratitude. And he really appreciates what he understood there: you can overcome a lot that at first glance seems insurmountable.

And of course I'm happy for him. But my youngest got an exemption from this case due to asthma. And I'm glad for that too (not asthma, of course - we did everything possible to cure it, and now he has a long period of remission. God willing, he will be fixed). He is different from me, and he has his own way. Let each of them have their own experience.

And my attitude to military service is twofold. I do not think that absolutely all boys should get this experience. And only those of them who, by their personal and physical qualities, are able to go through this school without harm to health, and who are internally ready for service. This readiness can be taught - at least when the elder made such a decision, we talked a lot on this topic, that every test during this period should be taken as an invaluable experience, and strive to come out of it with honor and extract positive. And of course, to know that this is temporary ... For those who are not ready to devote their lives to this. Those who serve professionally - I respect. This is not an easy path. Moreover, this is a system, and not very perfect.

Well, in conclusion. To all parents of boys who decide (by their own will or by the will of circumstances) to serve in the army - let it time will pass as calmly as possible for the soldier and for the parents. Let your sons bypass all negative cases, and the biggest test will be exercise stress. Which, of course, they will learn to perform with the benefit of their moral and volitional qualities. Well, for those who decide not to serve - so that this decision is meaningful, it does not cost too much, and does not bring problems to the son's life. So that the topic "slope" does not become leading in other aspects of life.

According to the Ministry of Defense, in Belarusian army is shrinking. In 1994, about 40 people committed suicide, in 2016 - four. After the incident in Pechi, the Investigative Committee for additional study all the materials of inspections and "refusal" materials for the six years of the existence of the department on the facts of death or injury in the army. And today, more than one family of guys who, according to documents, committed suicide, hopes for an investigation.

Story 1. “Often repeated the phrase: “People are not iron, money is not the main thing””

Mikhail Bevzyuk drafted into the army in 2014. In March 2015, a dead 22-year-old boy was brought to his relatives in the village of Lesets, Kalinkovichi district. On the eve of the transfer from training in Pechi, Mikhail was found hanged in the toilet of the dryer. And the day before, he got paid.

Yuri Bevzyuk, Michael's brother, tells: the soldiers reported what had happened. They called and said there was an emergency. The next day, Mikhail was brought to be buried.

The guy was 22 years old, he graduated from the Zhilichi State Agricultural College and received the profession of a horticultural technologist. Mikhail grew up in a village in a family where five children were raised by one mother.

“At first we didn’t believe it, we didn’t understand what was happening,” Yuri recalls. I don't even know how to explain. The military brought him and said that he was the best shooter and loader in the division, which they offered to stay on the contract.

On the whole, Mikhail did not complain about the conditions in the army to his relatives. The only thing he said was that they were badly fed and demanded money for the opportunity to use the phone. They tried to send him the money.

- Misha often repeated the phrase: “People are not iron, money is not the main thing,” says Yuri. “But he never expressed suicidal thoughts and was a positive person.

Mikhail was found hanged on March 21, 2015 in the toilet of the dryer. USC in the Minsk region opened a criminal case. As told official representative USC in the Minsk region Tatiana Belonog, investigative actions on this fact are held today.

Alexander Belotsky, the husband of Mikhail's sister, about a week after the incident, went to military unit in Pechi.

We were taken to the toilet, where everything happened. There's a toilet and a dryer in the same room. Showed the pipe on which he was found. The pipe is located at a distance of 40 centimeters from the wall. The wall was smooth and painted. I drew attention to this, because when Misha was brought to be buried, his eyebrow was cut above his right eye. We were told that when they filmed, they pulled him along the wall and probably scratched him. But, as it turned out, the wall was smooth, there is no rough surface, says Alexander.

He recalls that when the military brought Mikhail, his relatives wanted to take him to the house and examine him, but they were told that there was no time. But at the cemetery, they still noticed a bruise on his face.

- Later we went to the Investigative Committee, and they gave us a look at the case. There were four volumes. I flipped through, looked at the photos, read the conclusion. It turns out that when he was removed, the doctor of the unit did a heart massage and broke two of his ribs. But it made me suspicious.

Alexander notes that Mikhail's notes also appeared in the case.

- He wrote something in the style of “sergeants, what will it become easier for you?”, About some money, another note was found under the pillow of his friend, it said “mother, I'm sorry.” It feels like a film was shot - everything is frame by frame, everything is somehow very harmonious.

Alexander says that on March 20, in the evening, Mikhail received his salary, and on March 21 he was already found hanging in the toilet.

The interlocutor recalls that in December 2014, Mikhail called from the army and asked to send him money, but background someone said something. The guy abruptly hung up.

- He asked for 50 rubles, if translated into new money. Like, New Year, we're going to add up.

Alexander says that Mikhail's mother somehow came to terms with what happened, but he himself did not know where else to turn.

For his part, Yuri notes that the attention to the story of the death of Alexander Korzhych helped to talk about what happened publicly.

- Misha never gave up slack, never let himself be offended. During the funeral, they began to say that maybe because of the girl. But what girl? He had a whole phone number of girls. Therefore, when they told us what happened, we did not believe it, he could not. They were just in shock.

Story 2. “They said he wrote poems about death. But where, explain, in the army such verses?

Pavel Starenkov from the agricultural town of Khodosy, Mstislavsky district, were called up in May 2016. Destination - military unit 44540 near Zhodino. In November, the commander of the unit called the parents and said that. In February 2017, it was near the village of Zalesye, a few kilometers from Zhodino. Parents were told that Pasha hanged himself on a birch near the bank of Plisa. The father and mother do not believe that it could have been a suicide. For a year now they have been writing complaints and asking investigators to look into everything.

- What was our Pasha like? - asks again Valentina Arkadievna, mother of a soldier. - An only child. When I was in the 10th grade, we moved to Khodosy - closer to work. It was difficult for him to join the team, he was not particularly friendly with anyone. No, he had friends, but there - in the village where we used to live. There are six or seven boys of the same age there, from the cradle together. Pasha went there for the weekend, played football together, swam in the summer.

The son, the mother describes, was modest. He came home from school, talked with his parents, sat at the computer. Studied medium. I understood that I needed to get an education, I graduated from college: a specialty is an elevator operator. I thought about going further, but did not pass the competition.

“In the fall of 2015, a summons came,” continues Valentina Starenkova. - They pulled him, pulled him, but did not take him away. Postponed until the next call. I hoped they wouldn't pick it up. He did not want to join the army, his soul did not lie. Doctors in conclusion wrote: chronic gastritis and lagging behind in weight. I called the military commissar, explained, he answered: “Now they take everyone, we don’t have hot spots.”

On May 26, 2016, Pavel was taken away and sent to a military unit near Zhodino. He called every weekend. Everything, my mother says, told me: that they were digging trenches, that there was blood in the nose. Because of the blood, they advised me not to worry, everything will be fine - adaptation is underway. In June, the parents went to their son for an oath, they remember that they liked everything, the commanders performed well.

- Then he was sent to the Furnace for training - from July 4 to September 8, - my mother returns to those events. - It has become more difficult. Somehow he dialed me, he was generally upset. I packed up and left. But at the meeting he did not complain about anything, everything, he repeated, was normal. The closer to the end of training, the more difficult it was. The orders here, he said, are wild.

— What did he say?

“He didn’t say anything on the phone. Did you want to go to Zhodino as soon as possible? In a conversation with me, he took it as an inevitability. Disaccustom - and back.

- Did you visit him often?

- In August I visited him, my aunt from Minsk - in September. In November, when I returned to Zhodino, they declared a quarantine there. Wanted to come - can not. We asked him: Pasha, get used to it. They made sure everything was going to be alright. And they put money on the phone, and on the card. Call us, communicate. Still, you don’t really run into the Minsk region from the border area.

- Didn't you understand anything from the conversations?

- No, only in last days was sad. Old Man asked: “Pasha, are they running into you?” He replied: not really. I don't know, maybe he didn't want to upset us. And on Friday, November 11, he called at 9 pm and in such a doomed voice: "I'm fine, I'm fine." Said two identical phrases and hung up. I got upset. I had a bad feeling. In the morning I sent him a parcel - coffee, tea, sweets ... In December, this parcel was returned to me.

On Saturday, Valentina Arkadyevna called her relative in Minsk and asked her to go to the military unit, but her aunt couldn't - it didn't work out because of her work. They were waiting for Pasha to call, but he still did not call. They began to dial themselves, hoping that those who collect phones from soldiers would see that the mobile constantly vibrates and hand it over to the owner.

“The subscriber is out of range,” was all we heard in response, my mother recalls. - And in the evening they called us from the unit, they said: "Pasha is gone." And there it started spinning - commanders, deputies, psychologists dialed half the night. Where, they asked, could he be? How do I know? He's been in the army for six months now.

Pasha was searched for by law enforcement officers and the Angel search and rescue team.

“And then the commander called: “The events showed that he was running home,” continues Valentina Arkadyevna. - Where is he running? There are 280 kilometers. Two soldiers arrived. We lived for a week. My husband’s patience has already run out: “A person can stay in non-existence for two, three days. The rest is already unrealistic. What are you kidding me about?" And they: "We have a job, we have an order."

And then, says my mother, everyone left, and everything calmed down.

In February, on the bank of Plisa, a few kilometers from Zhodino, fishermen found the body of Pasha. His parents were told that he hanged himself from a birch.

“We were told he ran away,” my mother tries to restrain her emotions. - Everyone, they say, went to the bathhouse, and he complained of feeling unwell, stayed in the barracks and ran away. But how did he get away? Why wasn't he taken to the medical unit?

Parents do not know the answers to these questions. At the end of March, after all the examinations, the Starenkovs were brought closed coffin with son. And that's it.

“The Minsk investigator who dealt with this case closed it in May, the Borisovsky one, it seems, in August,” Valentina Arkadyevna shares her feelings. - In Borisov, they refused to initiate a criminal case, they said suicide. But they killed him, or he did it himself, the examination did not establish. We wrote to the prosecutor's office, newspapers - it's pointless. And only after the death of Sasha Korzhych did everything become public. The UK said they would take up all death cases in the army over the past few years. We haven't received anything yet. Yesterday (November 16. - Note TUT.BY) I called the investigator, he said that he had transferred everything to the Central Office of the Investigative Committee.

- Why did you decide that it could be a suicide?

- They said that in training center Pasha kept a diary: in a notebook, where he kept calculations and notes in the classroom, he made lyrical digressions, ”my mother answers. We were shown a photocopy of the sheets from this notebook. They asked: "Pashin's handwriting?" I felt bad, my husband looked: where there are numbers and calculations - yes, the rest - no. And that's it, we never saw this diary again. The investigator brought him and took him away.

- What are these lyrical digressions?

— Poems about death. But where, explain, in the army such verses? There were no books, no internet. He had never kept a diary before.

The press service of the USC in the Minsk region told TUT.BY: regarding the death of Pavel Starenkov, the USC in the Minsk region continues to carry out a number of verification and procedural actions.

Story 3

“I don’t know what happened in that part,” he says. Lily Ancud from Molodechno.

“No one wanted to do this business,” her husband adds. Vladimir.

"The Center for Psychological and Sociological Research provides remote psychological help and advice on:

- crisis life situation;

- misunderstanding on the part of others;

- conflicts with co-workers;

- other psychological problems.

In accordance with the law of the Republic of Belarus “On the provision of psychological assistance” dated July 1, 2010 No. 153-3, anonymity is guaranteed.”

Welcome back home!
Let your fighting spirit
And inspires civilians
Skill, experience help out!

And everything in life will turn out cool,
So that you are absolutely happy!
Reached heights in any career,
Dream to be your true!

Your family has been waiting for you
We congratulate you
Welcome back home,
Our dear soldier!

Smile quickly
Now life begins
There will be meetings and love,
A sea of ​​happiness, warm words!

You are a real man now
Out of date!
You are back! Brilliant success!
So that you can achieve a lot!

Let the victories be real
And in love, and in work, in business!
Let adversity and troubles bypass,
May you live like in your dreams!

Already back from the army
He became handsome and matured,
Now you are a real warrior
Worthy of honor and praise.

I hasten to congratulate the demobilization,
Wish you good and happiness
Let the "citizen" meet joyfully,
Go ahead and keep it up!

Congratulations on returning from the army are funny with humor

You are our dear soldier!
You were glad to return home!
You matured in the service,
Enemies of your now kranty!

You've lost weight, but it doesn't matter
Your experience is with you forever!
Use it to the fullest
And surprise us like Cousteau!

Grieved without loved ones,
Got up early
Finally served
And returned to the civilian

Finally ate borscht
And hugged my baby!
Laughter with luck together
Let them rush to you skipping!

You came! Hooray! We waited!
They wrote letters to the army!
What he did there, we all know!
Congratulations on your return!

Let's go for a walk, friend!
Rightfully deserved a spree!
Light up and have fun
So that your dreams come true!

"Farewell" said to the barracks dear,
I said goodbye to the parade ground forever,
You have already arrived home from the army,
You're cool, boy, it's - yes!

I congratulate you on your return
I want to fight peacefully
Let the lady be the enemy
And the place of the battle is only a bed.

Congratulations on the return of the son from the army for the mother

Your soldier has returned home,
He gave his debt to the Motherland!!
Good luck let them circle over it
After all, it has great potential!

Let the mood not be lost
Let him strive for victory
Your son, fighter, example, hero,
May the sun shine brightly on him!

Your son returned to civilian life,
Everyone shouts “Hurrah!” in honor of him.
Now have a party
And it's time for the most magnificent feast,

Now the son is loved at home,
Your heart will get warmer
You will only know joy
And live more fun!

You waited like no one can!
And your son is finally back!
Are you crying again? C'mon! What are you?
Now it's time to smile!

Look how mature he is!
You can be even more proud of them!
Congratulations, that day has come!
What you wish for him must come true!

Today you meet your son
Returned from the army of soldiers
I waited for him with great love,
You are a lot long days contract.

Let it be your support
Always a beautiful, glorious son
And thanks to God now
That he returned unharmed.

Congratulations on returning from the army in prose

Another important milestone in your life has come to an end! Let the demobilization be the starting point for new achievements, breakthroughs and the realization of pipe dreams! Let army friends stay in your life for long years, and the knowledge and experience gained will help you achieve everything you wish! Peace, light, love and kindness!

You were a brave soldier, matured, matured, and finally the time has come to return home, where your relatives were waiting for you. With the end of the service and the great joy of returning to habitual life! May new achievements, pleasant meetings, long-awaited hugs, endless fun and many memorable happy moments await you in civilian life, bringing light and good, giving an excellent mood and positive!

Congratulations on the long-awaited date - the date of your return from the army! We know that it was difficult, but you learned a lot, and, believe me, you will often remember and even miss your service! May life prepare you many chances that you definitely will not miss! Let it give you the opportunity to meet good and interesting people! And, of course, give true love!

Congratulations on your return from the army! Behind the hard years of service, behind - experience, in the piggy bank - strength and courage. Let this segment of life be the start of new victories. Manage with honor and intelligence to apply the acquired skills and knowledge in a peaceful, civil life, always remember your army friends and be grateful to fate for such an important test that tempered your character and raised a real man.

Short SMS with the return from the army

You grew up and got excited -
Today you returned home!
To achieve everything in civilian life,
We wish you! Bank accounts!

The days of the army, fortunately, behind,
And with this I sincerely congratulate you!
May joy sweetly glimmer ahead
I wish you more glorious joy!

Phenomenal luck, my friend!
He returned from the army - everyone is happy around!
Everything turns out quickly and easily!
Take off, you can, because it's beautiful, high!

You returned from the army
Accept congratulations.
Army life and service
Never forget!