Black streak in life. How to remove? What to do if a “black streak” has come in life

How to understand that a black streak has come

The black bar is a series of unpleasant events, problems and troubles that replace each other or fall on a person at once. It is important not to confuse this concept with the usual routine problems that exist in the life of every person. Many people like to overdramatize and even torn tights or a damaged manicure are a sign of an endless streak of misfortunes for them.

To make sure that your life is really a black streak, look around and objectively assess the situation. Ask yourself the question: “In what areas of my life do I have problems?”. Make a rough list of areas:

• Career
• Health
• Personal life
• Self-realization, etc.

Include items that are important to you. If you suddenly realize that the problems are concentrated in one area, you can be congratulated: there is no black line, there are problems that you, like all mortals, must solve. If you have marked at least three areas, this is an occasion to reflect and realize that now is really not the best time in your life.

Do not despair, the black bar ends sooner or later and you can directly influence its duration!

Why the black bar has come: reasons

Only you can answer this question. However, there are several reasons for failure:

1. You yourself. Unfortunately, in some cases, we ourselves are the culprits of the so-called black streak, and it is at least strange to shift our blame to others. Everything in the world strives for balance, and if you do not try to achieve harmony, sooner or later you will lose something. For example, you spend all day at work, forget about your family, and even on weekends you manage to think only about your career. Is there anything surprising in the fact that you will lose family, friends or loved one putting work at the center of your life? In the same way, it can happen in the opposite case, when the desire to please loved ones will shift your personal implementation and development in the list of priorities. Try to find a middle ground and develop all areas of life in more or less equal proportions.
2. . Often it is this point that slows down development and makes a person give up interesting prospects or an attractive position, not to mention communication with the opposite sex.
3. Negative thoughts, attitudes and beliefs. It is our thoughts that sometimes attract various troubles and failures. We do not allow ourselves to be happy on a subconscious level. Try to control your thoughts as much as possible, remember what attitudes were instilled in you as a child. Maybe you are giving up opportunities just because you don't believe in success and that you are worthy of happiness and love, like all people on this Earth? We are all born to feel and be happy. The only question is whether we allow ourselves to do so. Smile to the new day and believe only in the good.
4. Global and personal catastrophes. There is not always something that we can influence: natural disasters, floods, earthquakes, loss of personal property, whether it be car theft or a house fire. Each person can be in distress and all you can do in such a situation is to help others. Yes, yes, unite with people who also need your help and support. Good deeds are the best way to help overcome the black stripes of life and improve your karma, if you believe in it, of course.
5. Enemies and detractors. Sometimes troubles arise from the light hand of our enemies, envious people and ill-wishers. If this is exactly your case, you have three options for solving the problem: fight the enemy, retreat, or make peace. Each person is free to choose and decide independently. Therefore, whatever you do, you are right in any case.
6. Lack of life purpose. When we don't know what we want and where we're going, it's very easy to get thrown off course. Any incident will be perceived as a bad fate, depriving us of true happiness. ! Maybe then everything will fall into place.

When will the black bar end

How quickly the black streak ends depends, first of all, on the person himself, his character and attitude to life's difficulties. Some people tend to exaggerate any troubles and failures, and they perceive even a small test of fate as great tragedy. Obviously, such people experience a black streak very hard, often invent it themselves and find inner satisfaction in being eternal victims and suffering. The black stripe will never leave them.

But if a person sincerely knows how to enjoy the little things, not to notice minor failures and is able to see something good in everything, there will be very few black stripes in his life and he is unlikely to notice them, enjoying the moment.

By the way, black bars often disappear, one has only to think about the true state of things and change their attitude to what is happening.

What does fate really have in store for us?

The obstacles that we encounter during the period of the black stripe can be conditionally divided into three types:

1. Tests;
2. Punishments;
3. Signs.

Trials often come to us to confirm our intentions, to test ambition, purpose, and to test whether we really want something badly and are ready to act for it. Yes, fate tests us for strength, but after passing the test with dignity, it rewards the patient and purposeful.

Punishments are given by fate for wrong deeds, sins, missed opportunities. Many consider this to be karma or the will of God. But even if you are an atheist, no one has canceled the laws of balance, and everything that has been done will sooner or later return to you like a boomerang.

Signs come to us when we sit too long in the comfort zone, stop developing, growing and learning. Then fate decides to throw us out of the nest, makes us look around and start acting differently. It is very important how a person relates to such signs. Maybe the fact that you were fired from your job is not a reason to be sad and angry with God, but a reason to find a more interesting and promising work or even take up the business of life and start own business? Maybe you should not kill yourself because of parting with your loved one, but take care of yourself, and then a partner will come into your life with whom you will be able to build even more holistic and harmonious relationships?

How to get rid of the black bar

So, you realized that only you are the creator of your destiny, you are convinced that there is really a black streak in your life and you want to act. How to adequately survive and cope with the trials of fate?

1. Let the emotions come out. Believe me, to cheer up and prove to everyone, including yourself, that everything is fine, while experiencing a storm of emotions inside is not the best solution. So you will only provide yourself with health problems and aggravate the situation. Let the emotions come out: cry, if necessary, shout. Just do not delay this period and "suffer" for too long.
2. Look around and assess the situation. Analyze what true reason the occurrence of a losing streak, what mistakes you made. If there is an opportunity to fix something, make a plan and take action.
3. Change the scenery. Leave the city, having gone to the village or to the country house with friends. If there is an opportunity to go on a longer trip, do it. When if not now? Even short trips help clear your mind, take a fresh look at the situation and return to habitual life a completely different person with different attitudes.
4. Estimate your losses. Perhaps you have lost something, but surely something has remained with you? Thank fate for this and appreciate what you have.
5. Accept the problem if there is one.. Recognize it and in no case deny it, so you will only exacerbate the situation.
6. Help others. Nothing heals faster than the feeling of being needed, kindness and sincerity. Find people who need help even more than you and do something nice for them. Spiritual uplift is guaranteed.
7. Keep calm. Tantrums and panic are not the most the best companions. If you have already found yourself in a raging sea, a strong chaotic floundering will drag you even deeper. Pull yourself together and collect your thoughts.
8. Look for support within yourself. Faith in God or higher powers, the laws of the world and, of course, faith in yourself will help you!
9. Surround yourself with loved ones and dear people: friends, relatives. The ones you love and who love you. Try to communicate with positive people, avoid pessimists and whiners.
10. If for some reason, you are deprived of the opportunity to surround yourself with loved ones, go out into nature more often and spend time in solitude.
11. Accept help and don't refuse it.
12. Enjoy. Perhaps the black bar is just a myth, and your adversity is associated with the lack of endorphins in the body. Helps lift your spirits tasty food, sex, shopping, beauty salons and other pleasures. Just remember that everything is good in moderation: do not overeat and make love only with your loved one.

• Practice to Identify Problems

Take a piece of paper and make an impromptu table. In the first column, write all your problems, and in the second, the solution. So you can clearly see how many significant problems you have and identify those that require immediate work.

Example

It is possible that the real problems will turn out to be much less than you expected, or the problems that you found will be insignificant. Or maybe you suddenly find the root of all problems or identify in time a situation that prevents you from living and breathing to the fullest?

• Daily Measures

Apart from general principles, there are things that are worth doing daily to maintain good spirits:

1. Start each morning with a smile and gratitude for the new day, this is how you change the karma of the day. And in the evening, ask the Universe and yourself for forgiveness for all situations where you could not think positively or acted unworthily - this tool helps to change the karma of life.
2. Go to the mirror during the day and smile at yourself. Do this, even if it is difficult and you have to smile through force. A forced smile will soon turn into sincere joy.
3. Every evening praise yourself for your successes, even if they seem very small to you. Keep a diary of victories and write every day: "I can ...", "I could (la) ...". Nothing raises our self-esteem better than awareness of our own strength and capabilities.
4. Learn something new every day: read books, go to courses, watch educational films, listen to lectures, go on excursions, etc.
5. Avoid noisy gatherings, but do not forget to communicate with friends: go to visit, walk a lot, visit museums, exhibitions, cinemas and other events.
6. Train your positive thinking: believe in the best and try to find a positive at any moment, like the main character of the film "Polyanna".

• What should not be done?

Under no circumstances should you:

• drinking alcohol;
• eat a lot and excessively;
• feel sorry for yourself;
• lose heart;
• avoid communication;
• stay at home and don't go anywhere.

Whether there is a black bar or whether it is just a problem of our perception of the world is up to you. One way or another, everything passes. The black stripe will also pass!

Loser syndrome: how to get out of the black stripe

And now, instead of a luxury car, there is only a “broken trough” next to you. And you are desperate. You scold yourself, your fate and ask with tears: “Why did this happen to me? For what? What should I do now?!"

Keep believing in the best!

It often happens that, being thrown "to the sidelines" of life, you are left alone with your misfortune. You stand and watch other cars rush past you, as if not noticing you, they live their own lives, hurry somewhere, flash their headlights and carelessly disappear over the horizon. You want at least one of the cars to stop, for a kind driver to help, support, even better - solve all your problems, put you in the interior of your car and take you straight to a happy future. But all the drivers pass by, as if not noticing you. It's not right, you can't do anything.

“What is it even called?!” you think. This is called the very "black stripe" in yours. We drove, we drove, we drove! Straight to her. This is your test of life, so to speak, a test of strength. What will you do next? Will you be disappointed in everyone and everything, remaining in this state, or will you continue to believe in the best?

Being on the “black streak”, you cannot look into your future to see where it will end, at this moment of despair it seems to you that this “black streak” is endless, and that you will not have enough strength to reach a new, bright stage in your life. But think that maybe with patience and a few more steps, you will see a new turn and start climbing to the top of happiness again. No wonder they say: "If it's hard for you, then you're going uphill."

Therefore, always continue to believe in the best and strive for a happy future! Try to find the strength in yourself to take the next step.

Remember that there are moments in life that are worth living for!

Walking your path with wisdom and patience, without losing faith in goodness and hope for the best, remaining true to yourself, you will definitely achieve what you want, and luck will fall on you again. In everything, in all spheres of life, you will again be successful! The main thing is to believe in it! Remember how the cat Leopold sang in his song:

"Never lose
Don't lose your dreams.
Firmly believe, firmly know:
You can do everything in the world"

For your patience and faith, life will certainly reward you, and you will feel such a rise in spiritual strength that you will still rejoice and admire her wisdom and generosity. "Everything comes in due time for those who know how to wait"(O. Balzac)

You will understand that there are days for which it is worth living! For which it was worth continuing to believe, breathe and fight.

Do not be disappointed in life and in people!

If in this moment something in your life is going wrong, don't despair. Just firmly believe that this “black streak” is not eternal, and you will overcome it with dignity. These very “black stripes” in life teach us to appreciate the good that we have in the present, teach us to be stronger, help to distinguish white from black in every day of our lives.

If you endlessly rushed along the “white streak”, you would not learn to appreciate it, you would not be able to feel the joy of victories, this streak of luck would seem to you something natural and unchanged. And the appearance of “black stripes” sobers us up, mobilizes and tempers us so that we don’t relax, so that we learn to appreciate the good and be grateful for it.

I wish you to believe in the best and look for the best in people, and pass all the "black stripes" with dignity and wisdom!

Everything will be the best for you
You just believe in it and calm down,
No events are rushed
Tune in for the best and the best.

Everything will work out, everything will be just like that,
That you can enjoy happiness
And failure is just a sign
That you shouldn't rush along the way.

You just calm down and believe
That your angel is protecting you
And at the right time to open any door
He quietly helps you.

Every person sooner or later in his life is faced with the fact that he is haunted by a series of failures, troubles, a string of troubles. Usually this stage is temporary, followed by positive changes in life. But it can be very difficult to survive a difficult period, especially if a person is receptive and vulnerable by nature. To speed up the process of a protracted streak of failures, you can use magical actions. If there was a black streak in life, what to do, the conspiracy will help to overcome it as soon as possible and avoid unpleasant consequences, return the usual rhythm of life to its previous course. Rituals and conspiracies will help if a black streak has begun, if a person really needs help and if there is a mood for a positive outcome.

The black bar is called a difficult period in life, which is characterized by a large number of suddenly accumulated problems, confusing situations. Before applying the conspiracy from the black streak in life, you should analyze the situation. The main signs of the presence of negative energy are:

Headaches are the main symptom of a black stripe in life

• very frequent diseases, massive exacerbations of chronic diseases;
• constant loss of energy resources for no reason, apathy, loss of desire to work;
• sleep disturbances, nightmares, difficulty falling asleep, insomnia, sleepwalking, or hallucinations;
• quarrels with loved ones for no apparent reason;
• severe headaches and dizziness.

Put away Negative influence possible with the help of magical rites.

How does a person attract negative energy?

Psychologists and experts in the field of the occult claim that a person's negative attitude can change his life for the worse. The reasons for the lingering black bar can be called:

Negativity can ruin your life

1. The man himself. Sometimes the person himself can provoke the appearance of a period of failures. Therefore, there is no need to look for the guilty and complain about the failed fate. In nature, everything is natural, there is a certain balance, and if there is no desire to strive for harmony, the correct balance is violated, as a result, a person may lose something. For example, spending most of the time at work, time is not given to the family. This is fraught with the loss of loved ones who need attention. It can be vice versa, then a person becomes a loser who cannot find a normal job. Therefore, it is very important to find a middle ground for yourself. Perhaps, before looking for a way to get rid of failures, you can simply change something in yourself, and life will take on a new direction.
2. Lack of confidence in yourself and your own forces. It is in the presence of such an item that a person refuses a promising position, thereby stopping on the path to self-development. Also, in the presence of such a trait, personal life often suffers, since there are problems with communication with members of the opposite sex.
   Negative attitudes and thoughts. Very often, negative attitudes attract failures and troubles.
3. Therefore, it is important to control such thoughts, tune in to the positive, believe in a positive outcome. It is important to believe in success, smile more often.
4. Personal problems and disasters. A person cannot always influence the problems that have fallen on him, nor can we control a flood, a hurricane, or a fire.
5. The negative influence of enemies and ill-wishers.
6. Lack of life goals.

Believe in success and smile more often

Effective rituals for problem solving

How to get rid of the black bar of life? Getting rid of a string of failures is possible with the help of conspiracies. The ritual is very effective with the help of chicken egg. After sunset, roll an egg across your chest, while saying:

“As I roll an egg, so I roll out evil spells from life: go away, leave me, disappear from the body and mind. I say goodbye to dark sorcery, I drive the enemy out of everyday life. You are no longer my master, I am my own master. I can heal myself and protect myself forever and protect from disasters. From now on, neither the evil eye, nor slander, nor damage will disturb me. Amen!".

Do this for about ten minutes. Then write with a black felt-tip pen on the egg the words:

“I send all the troubles to the egg.”

After the ritual, bury the egg on the street, in a deserted place under a tree.

You can also use warm water. She needs to rinse daily, while reading the words:

Use warm water for washing in the morning

“Water, water, water, a true beauty, you have always been a healer and savior for me, so help me this time. Deliver life from the dark oppression and devastation of life. I ask you to save my house from damage and add heavenly powers. I pray to wash away all the failures and black stripes. May it be so".

Get rid of failures with the help of the following conspiracy. Bake a cake, buy a can of milk, collect a few coins in a towel or handkerchief, go to the cemetery. Find an unmarked grave, spread a cloth, put gifts on it. Bow to the deceased, ask him for help. To tell:

“Dead man, brush away troubles and failures from me, may happiness come to me forever.” You can only do this ritual once.

How to put protection from negativity

With the help of conspiracies, not only get rid of failures. You can also put protection. Speak a protective hex for a month while in contact with water - for example, when preparing food, bathing, eating, or cleaning the house:

“At the origins of life is the word, behind which the water was hidden. Voditsa, water, you are always with me. I ask you to keep my strength with me, but not to give it to anyone in life. As you purify my body, so you purify your thoughts, you grant health to the soul. Become a strong defense for me. May it be so".

It is very important to understand that you build your own life, you yourself can manage many events. Use the following recommendations and advice from experts for yourself:

Stop thinking that you are a loser

1. Get rid of the idea that you are a failure, that you will not succeed.
2. Set a specific goal and strive to achieve it. It should not be abstract dreams or illusions, but a real goal.
3. Do not communicate with people who are unpleasant to you, with pathological losers and with those who eat up your energy, charging it, feeding on your positive emotions.
4. Do not argue or conflict with those whose energy field affects you negatively.
5. Use amulets, both personal and to protect your home and your family.
6. Do not give up, look for a way out in every situation. Remember that all kinds of failures will end soon, they will come into your life good events.
7. Don't let strangers rule your life.
8. Pray for help higher powers, visit the temple, believe in the forces of light.

Human life is arranged in such a way that it is not necessary to expect only stability and harmony from it, it will definitely present some kind of “surprise”, perhaps even more than one.

Often such surprises are just called black streak in life . It is rare that anyone is ready for unexpected twists of fate in gloomy shades, and here everything is already determined by the fortitude: some go into themselves and let everything take its course, while others, on the contrary, unfold the struggle for their well-being and those close to them.

Why did a black streak come into your life?

In moments of impending despair, only two questions flash in my head: Why is this happening to me?" and " When will this all end?”And if the answer to the first of them may lie in the actions of the past, or fate gives a chance to gain some experience through trials for cardinal changes in the future, then no one knows a clear answer to the second question. With the onset of a black streak in life, problems are attracted, like a magnet, one after another, gradually turning into a big “snowball”. Pessimism, despair and the depression that follows them destroy a person, his life. The ability to steadfastly cope with difficulties is not given to everyone, but you can still develop self-control, self-control in difficult moments and not get confused.

How to face adversity

Even if initially the situation seems hopeless, you should not give up, you should study it in detail from all sides and you will definitely find a loophole that will open the way to overcome the streak of failures, give mental strength and instill faith in a brighter future.

Changes for the better are not far off.

« Everything flows, everything changes", - once said one ancient Greek philosopher, and I also like the phrase " Everything passes, this too shall pass“And this truth is confirmed by life. Behind the black stripe, a white one will definitely appear, you just need to strive for this yourself, and not take a wait-and-see attitude.

The trials that fate presents are not without reason, which means that everyone to whose lot they fall needs to go through them and, taking the chance, cope with them, gaining a good hardening of life, a strong inner core, a radically changed worldview and moral component.

Life is always a struggle and in order to be effective, motivation is needed. Thinking, first of all, about his family, a person moves forward, paving the way to well-being.
An optimistic attitude, positive thoughts also contribute to quick changes for the better and the materialization of everything that is believed in. The school of life can take a person to the maximum before they lift him to the “pedestal of honor”. Overcoming barriers and black stripe like a thorny path to a white stripe, in the end, an understanding will come that success and personal growth It is the result of hardships and hardships experienced.

The results of our decision of the black stripe in life

Of course, discussing other people's problems, giving advice to others is much easier than experiencing adversity on yourself. How difficult it is, and sometimes even unbearable to understand from the outside, is not given to everyone. Therefore, it is important to selectively approach your surroundings, cherish those who once proved to be a true friend, turned out to be there in difficult times and extended a helping hand.
Everything in life is reversible, so you need to be able to appreciate the actions of people and be grateful, show attention not only to your problems. Having built a rear of reliable, proven friends in advance, fear of the present and future is minimized, any adversity is within our power and it will be possible to overcome them with a proudly raised head and confidence in the future.

And this is from Vladimir Dovgan. If you know this person, then perhaps you have heard how many ups and downs he had, how many ruins he had. So who better than him to give you advice on how to get out of the crisis.

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“Trouble does not come alone” - I think many will agree with this saying. Indeed, it is worth a certain negative event to occur and it started like in a fairy tale: "The farther, the worse." It also happens that it seems that there is nowhere to “fall” lower, but no, an inventive life will come up with such a “juicy slap in the face” that you get into such a mess that the previous one will seem like just a childish failure.

So all the same, why does one grief cling to another, and then, in turn, the next, sometimes turning life into one continuous black streak?

Someone will say that karma is to blame, someone will attribute everything to damage, Zeland's supporters will say that this is all a matter of "pendulums", but a skeptic will say: "This is just an accident." And you know, maybe they are all partly right, no one knows the exact explanation, and all these points really work, especially if you believe in them.

• Believe me, a wise specialist in “slaps in the face” from life and all kinds of “black stripes” (as well as gray, black speckled, with circles and all other dark shades), and not just a home-grown amateur philosopher, but a practical one.

Well, and I had practice: “a wagon, yes a small cart”, judge for yourself:

Even as a child, I suffered 13 pneumonias (not counting other minor sores and illnesses later), the doctors almost killed me with their “experiments” (without the knowledge of my parents) and made me shy away from all people for a long time. Growing up, my pain went away, but my fears turned into complexes and phobias. Everything around seemed to be painted in dark colors, despite the many possible events, my body dulled not only the pain, but also the emotions.

As a child, carrying a glass of water and stepping over a drunken neighbor sleeping on the landing, I fell (since he began to toss and turn at that time), and I fell so that half of the broken glass stuck out in the center of my forehead.

So I became even more afraid of drunks

Despite the fact that my mother worked for one and a half rates, she took part-time work at home - there was always a lack of money. And my father often drank and was constantly on various journeys (sometimes for years), in search of either himself or just for fun. It seemed to me then that I live in some kind of constantly dark strip, which simply has no end. Negative events simply changed each other, and I got so used to all this that I began to perceive it all as a matter of course.

It was then that I first began to be interested in self-development, NLP, esotericism, then for the first time I began to think: why do some people succeed in everything, while others, well, nothing at all, despite the many efforts made for this. And you know, then I managed to get out of the series of “darkness” - I became a sociable, cheerful and quite optimistic young man, believing that life consists not only of black stripes, but also of bright joy, anticipation of good and of course love.

But in life everything is cyclical and the second blackening stripe, or rather, I learned my second life lesson after the army, when I was 25 years old. Then I was already married and my first son was already born.

Firstly, I then lost a lot of weight, and secondly, my mother fell ill with cancer and after a few months “burned out” in the disease, she died in my arms. A few months after the death of the mother, the father dies (blood clots in the carotid arteries). In between these events, my cousin daughter dies (syndrome sudden death). Well, and finally, my wife and I are divorcing, and attacks from my wife begin on me about the parental apartment (she and the child were registered in the parental apartment).

This black line went on for several years without a light, and at times it seemed to me that I would just go crazy. At that time I was simply sure that I had some kind of damage on me, and once having accidentally broken a mirror in the bathroom, I seriously thought that everything, probably, was the next one. I start running around grandmothers in the hope that the witching spell will be removed from me and all hardships will pass. As it turned out, nothing helped, and only faith in myself helped me, faith that God would not leave me, faith that everything would be fine and ……., but, STOP - all this deserves a separate story.

Only for the most impatient I will write about mine today:

Everything is fine with me, I have a small family: me, my wife (9 years younger than me) and my a big joy- This is a seven-month-old son, Yaroslav. The eldest son (from his first marriage) will soon be 19 years old, he lives in another city, but he is happy to come to visit me and I love him very much.

At that time, it was not possible to defend the parental apartment in full, but I have my own, however, so far a small apartment (expansion of living space is in the nearest plans).

I work in a small furniture company as a deputy director, there is a lot of work, but I hope that there are even more prospects for the future. Despite all my busyness, sometimes I write to my blogs, with the hope that it may be useful to someone.

• Departing a little from the topic with a story about my life, I pursued the goal not to boast to you and show myself from the red side - take it away, I just wanted to say and show to all readers of my blog:

“There is nothing impossible in life - everything changes in it, because this is the basic law of physical matter. There is a place for everything in life: joy too, and no matter how hard it is for you today, remember: everything ends and the black streak too, but for how long it will drag on depends primarily on yourself. The world is not against you, it is neutral, but what color to paint it in is up to you. After all, the truth is that it is in your power to choose which thought or emotion you can support, and which one you try to dismiss as unnecessary?

Hell and heaven already exist within you - just choose what you support.

If you liked it, then read on, if not - well, I do not insist, everyone has their own truth, choose a different path - there are many of them.

Before the start of the main story, I will once again emphasize to you that I do not climb into the abstruse jungle of reasoning, I just write about my experience, about the conclusions that I have come to today, I will try to give you a “drop of confidence” in myself and describe to you those "gadgets" that work for me.

Axioms of light and dark stripes or a golden, striped tablet from Oleg Plett :

• M ir in relation to us is neutral.

He is neither evil nor kind, he absolutely does not give a damn about us, he is exactly the way we accepted him inside ourselves. The world around you is a reflection of your inner state.

• AT era is a very strong "genie" in our hands.

What to believe is up to you. You believe that everything will be fine - “according to your faith it will be for you”, you believe that life is a cruel “thing” - get your own, the law works in this case too. You sincerely believe that God and all the forces of light stand as a mountain for you - be sure that it is so.

• Love can do everything.

Love is not a selfish desire for possession, of course not. Love is the highest vibrational energy. Love does not seek or fawn, it is full and self-sufficient, it can turn any hell into a blooming paradise. Love is God loving no matter what. God forgives us not for our actions, he forgives us because he is God (love). The closest energy to true love is maternal love. How more love in your life, the brighter, better and smoother your life.

• P like attracts like.

Negative thoughts and emotions attract negative situations, which in turn give rise to new negative emotions - this is like a vicious circle, and if it is not interrupted, this can continue for a lifetime. Conversely, joyful emotions attract good events. The conclusion suggests itself.

• By changing our thoughts, emotions and beliefs, we change the course of our lives.

Filter every emotion and thought, choose only positive and correct ones, cultivate them in yourself.

• The feeling of guilt triggers the mechanism of punishment.

This is why confession is so important. Take your mistakes as important life lessons, and therefore, like any lesson, you need to learn it and understand the meaning of what you experienced. As soon as you realized your mistake, you turned the tide, you learned your lesson, and after that, have the strength to forgive yourself and others.

• Living in the present, you choose the best option of the possible.

I have talked about this more than once.

• There are no hopeless situations.

Closing one of the doors, God always opens another.

• Having made decisions, act.

You have an active always more chances than you have the same passive. So do not lie on the couch - act.

• Never do evil to another - evil kills.

Doing evil to another - you are doing badly, first of all, to yourself, whoever has come across this will understand me.

• Any change does not happen instantly - it takes time.

And this is good, otherwise if everything changed instantly, then we would have done something wrong. No need to complain that time goes by, but nothing changes, you just need to believe that happiness is inevitable.

But on this I consider the first part of the post on this topic closed, but on the next one, I propose to go to practical work.

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